Berlin's Studio Avalon Is Closing Down

No More Happy Surrender In Berlin's Paradisal Underworld Realm

Herrin Mercedes [L] and Lady Marlon [R] (image: Avalon website)

After reading about it, Dutch banged his head against the table for a long time. Amsterdam to Berlin is only 650km (400 miles) by car or about six hours' drive. One day, or so I told myself. Too late. At the end of October the famous Berlin dungeon closed down for good. The Avalon website reads: 

"suddenly you realize it's time to start something new and to let go of what was." [1]

China's Uighur Minority Locked Up In Concentration Camps

Identity is not about what meets the eye

If you don't look like us or act like us, you can never be like us. Just in case you didn't get why I don't like the current OWK's management. More on that later.

A cinema in Beijing, where Disney’s live-action “Mulan” opened to tepid reviews. (Image: The New York Times)

Missed my deadline. Blame Covid -19. Running late for this year's post on International Day for the Abolation of Slavery - Modern Day Slavery for short. That was on December 02. Yes, my blogging calendar is full, but don't worry, I'll never miss this one entry. It's the single, most important day for all that have crossed over to the Dark Side. BDSM, femdom, it's up to us to accept or renounce. We're free to say yes or no. And no, our preferences are not generally accepted, but in the greater scheme of things, who dares complaining?

Let's Have The Talk

All of a sudden Dutch is all ears

To be the recipient of her personal gravity is nothing but a privilige.

The other day I was watching a re-run of The Big Bang Theory on Netflix. Cue next episode and suddenly I find myself watching science geek Sheldon giving his Mum "the talk" about safe sex. Odd, very odd.

One can only wonder if there is such a thing as a femdom equivalent of "the talk". I don't know, but it feels highly unlikely. I have no idea what that talk should be about. Different talks for different couples is the best I can come up with.

I must admit, however that today's image comes pretty close to what I imagine, is mistress and slave having "the talk." Most likely because it's such a strong image. The fact that I like it, because it ticks so many boxes might also have something to do with it. For one, effortless intensity comes to mind, or as I like to call it: her personal gravity.

Intimacy

Beyond the complex lies the extra-ordinary

Only a fool refuses to bow to reality.

Forget I was born this way. Part of what makes femdom fun is the endless array of toys and outfits, not to mention the many insanely complex schemes.

Yes, by now I know toys are evil, at least according to the femdom police. Who cares, I'm a rebel by heart. As for naked slaves versus mistresses dressed in leather or rubber, that's very much up to her, don't you agree?

11/11 Today Is My Birthday

The best humiliation money can buy.

Caged birds of a feather

For years I've been loath to talk about certain intimate details. Some say, audacity doesn't become an inferior slave like Dutch. Despite that I humbly beg you to read on.

Because I'm a terrible submissive, it's hard to consensually-non-consensual humiliate me. It's complicated, I know. Like you, I wonder what kind of world we live in where slaves are allowed to make a living in the first place. Financial independence for slaves is the worst idea ever. Take away our jobs and give us free money and proper humiliation instead. It's the kind of shameful existence we deserve.

Sexy Voice Fetishes, Are They Real?

Lure of the modern-day Sirens

Miley Cyrus is singing on the radio. These days she has a low, husky voice that sounds very sexy. It makes me wonder, is there such a thing as a voice fetish?

Miley Cyrus in concert (image: NME)

Remember how I argued Grace Jones [2] is the original femdom icon? Back in the 1980s, on one of her appearances on the Joan Rivers talkshow, she lets it slip that she has many clones. No doubt, a generation later, they've multiplied. Miley Cyrus is not one of them and I mean that as a compliment to both of them.

Miley's latest song Midnight Sky is on heavy rotation on my local radio station. The track is OK, but nothing special. What grabs my attention is Miley Cyrus' voice, over and over again.

'Smart' Male Chastity Device Can Be Controlled By Hackers, Users Warned

Lockdown those Loins forever.

Thought the Internet of Things was bad? The internet of chastity devices controlled exclusively by Bluetooth is worse. [1]

"Houston, have you seen my phone?"

Don't know how you like to start your Sunday morning, but I like to read the paper, serious news and so on. OK, I skip over the Corona segment, but technology is still my thing.

Imagine my surprise when I first discovered The Guardian considers remote controlled sex toys, high tech. It's not that only this week people for the first time suddenly found out sex toys can be hacked. Tell me again why it is so important to send customer feedback halfway around the world to the manufacturer when you use your vibrator that is connected to the internet? To receive a text message back, telling you that your next door neighbour has had more machine orgasms this week?

Justin Bieber Takes A Walk On The Wild Side

What took you so long mate?

It takes two to tango. Hailey ripping of hubby's shirt on camera. (Image: Daily Mail)

Justin Bieber releases his first studio album in 2010. At the time the singer is 16, and a lot more mature than most people on-line and of legal age. If you don't like somebody's music, don't listen to it. Instead many choose to [anonymously] disrespect a minor on-line.

In November 2018 the singer marries model Hailey Baldwin. Clearly the marriage is working out for him, because last year Justin released his album Changes, only to become his seventh consecutive number one album in the US. Who's laughing now?

Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Educator of Equality Dies at 87

Sexy comes in many ways. Kindness and decency are the best. Being [street] smart is runner up. All the rest is [much] less.

Justice Ginsburg even has her own colouring book.

 

Hailed as a feminist icon, Justice Ginsburg, who passed away on September 18, advanced women's rights by arguing equal rights cases for men. People call her a feminist icon, but the soft-spoken, reserved Justice probably wouldn't agree.

"An adoring female visitor to chambers once remarked to Justice Ginsburg that her ‘feminist’ girlfriends just loved the justice for what she had done for American women. The justice replied to the effect that she hoped the visitor’s male friends loved her as well."

Inviting Smile

Good things come in threes: smiles, gloved hands and the colour red.

When mistress smiles, every day feels like Christmas.

Smiles are not a fetish, but they are definitely one of the most important characteristics that attract me to some women but not others. Of course n
obody is happy 24/7 or smiles all day. What matters is being born with positive attitude towards life.

Smiles can also be very deceptive. The image of this lovely lady in red popped up on my screen several times this month. Clearly the femdom police wants me to write about it, so I do.

The smile on her face looks like someone who got her loved one the best Christmas present ever and can't wait to wake him up at six AM just to give it to the man she loves.

The cane in her hand is a sure hint, we're not talking presents here. Anticipating what comes next, makes her very happy.  She cannot stop smiling and is dressed for the occassion, including matching gloves in red. Did I mention, I love the colour red and gloves too? [1] Combined with her body language and smile make this such a lovely image. Men have dropped to their knees for [much] less.

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[1] Remember my confession about how I enjoy women's hands? Gloved hands are nice too.

Tight Is The Word

If you're old enough to remember the movie Grease, you know what I'm talking about.

Back in 1976 tight was synonymous with Grease.

Nature or nurture, that's the big question explaining who we [think we] are. Whatever. For as long as he can remember, Dutch has a thing for women in leather pants, cat suits and latex ensembles. It takes time to understand where you're coming from. In my case I cannot help but wondering if Grease is the answer.

In 1976, the movie Grease was the best performer at the box office, starring a young John Travolta opposite Olivia Newton John. If you're about 15 years older than Dutch [circa man on the moon], High School Musical is the word. Same story, different cat. The big if, separating two movies that define two consecutive generations, are Sandy's pants.