Sunday, January 24, 2021

Cellmate Chastity Device Owner Blackmailed By Hacker

Now that's what i call involuntary involuntary 

Alternative version of "Your hand in mine." Sing along everybody!

Remember the commotion about the Cellmate chastity device last year? The story only gets better - and no you cannot make this up. This particular development I found through the blog of Domina Lady Sas. The German version of Vice magazine reported earlier this week that a Cellmate owner became the victim of blackmail.

Friday, January 22, 2021

Dog Walks Woman

Everybody knows femdom is serious business. After all for us this real. Kink is so serious in fact that there is something called the femdom police. And I'm on their watch list. So if they ask you where I got this very funny gif, tell 'm from a friend. I'm in enough trouble as it is.

Anyway, ran into this image by chance and it's the ultimate follow-up to the previous [real world] story about a woman walking her husband-dog during curfew. Allows me end with a famous, apt quote from Chekhov, I forgot in my previous post.

"Every man lives his real, most interesting life under cover of secrecy"

Anton Chekhov,
The Lady with the Dog

Wednesday, January 20, 2021

Canadian Couple Fined For Wife Walking Dog-Husband

Covid-19 Strikes Again!

I get it, Covid-19 is cruel and indifferent. But why fine her innocent hubby-dog? 

Eden Avital Alexander walking a man in 2014 in order to gauge audience reactions. (image: Alarabiya)

My blogging frequency puts me at a disadvantage, bringing you the lastest. When I read today's story, I decided to ignore it. No more. Earlier today the Dutch government decided to impose a curfew on it's citizens. Of course there are exceptions, among the more noticable ones are walking your dog (alone). So is going to a TV studio for a live appearance on late night TV. Why? Elections are coming up in about two months. Isn't democracy wonderful?

Friday, January 08, 2021

Pssst, Wanna Buy Femdom Shampoo?

jan osipyan for schwarzkopf professional russia, women in red dress, femdom, art

For those who miss Tumblr, there's now an alternative. BDSMLR is a copy of Tumblr, only less sophisticated. It's where I found this image. Despite the fact it's an ad and not a femdom image, the women in red ooze femdom. Looking at their hair, their probably from a different planet, perhaps the Empire of a Hundred Suns from the Yapoo novels.

Wednesday, January 06, 2021

Zero Leather

Almost, but you're welcome to say yes to her dress.

mistress in chair, slave worshipping her feet on the ground, femdom, bdsm.

More than most Dutch loves his toys, evil furniture and dommes dressing up. Despite that femdom has never been about those things. But hey, if you eat burgers for dinner all the time and tonight is different, why not cook your steak to perfection?

Wednesday, December 30, 2020

China's Uighur Minority Locked Up In Concentration Camps

Identity is not about what meets the eye

If you don't look like us or act like us, you can never be like us. Just in case you didn't get why I don't like the current OWK's management. More on that later.

(Image: The New York Times)

Missed my deadline. Blame Covid -19. Running late for this year's post on International Day for the Abolation of Slavery - Modern Day Slavery for short. That was on December 02. Yes, my blogging calendar is full, but don't worry, I'll never miss this one entry. It's the single, most important day for all that have crossed over to the Dark Side. BDSM, femdom, it's up to us to accept or renounce. We're free to say yes or no. And no, our preferences are not generally accepted, but in the greater scheme of things, who dares complaining?

Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Pornhub Doesn't Care

The wonderful Claire Adams and her rubber slave. (Image Men in Pain)

Pornhub has 3.5 billion visits per month. Not all of them unique, otherwise, half of humanity would visit their site.  Also, some 6.8 million new videos are uploaded every year. Most of them of people having fun in the bedroom or some other place, uploading the result of what just happened.

Sunday, December 13, 2020

Of Circles And Squares

Everybody knows circles are by definition perfect

Explaining the true nature of beauty or happiness is impossible. Don't read on.

Pretty much self-explanatory. I'll leave it at that.

Circles and squares represent the arche-type of what it means to be human, once you get rid of life's bloathwear. Two geometrical figures sum up the essence of female and male. Lean in, look closer and observe. Circles and squares are highly similar, yet oh so different. When in doubt, emphasize what connects them. Not convinced? Grab a random stranger and ask. As soon as Mr. Square catches his breath, he can't stop talking about the overwhelming similarities between both forms. No surprise there, a man's life revolves around certain Wonderful Girls, Magical Creatures and their beautiful, rounded corners. [1] Just not because of that.

Saturday, December 12, 2020

Berlin's Studio Avalon Is Closing Down

No More Happy Surrender In Berlin's Paradisal Underworld Realm

Herrin Mercedes [L] and Lady Marlon [R] (image: Avalon website)

After reading about it, Dutch banged his head against the table for a long time. Amsterdam to Berlin is only 650km (400 miles) by car or about six hours' drive. One day, or so I told myself. Too late. At the end of October the famous Berlin dungeon closed down for good. The Avalon website reads: 

"suddenly you realize it's time to start something new and to let go of what was." [1]

Saturday, November 28, 2020

Let's Have The Talk

All of a sudden Dutch is all ears

To be the recipient of her personal gravity is nothing but a privilige.

The other day I was watching a re-run of The Big Bang Theory on Netflix. Cue next episode and suddenly I find myself watching science geek Sheldon giving his Mum "the talk" about safe sex. Odd, very odd.

One can only wonder if there is such a thing as a femdom equivalent of "the talk". I don't know, but it feels highly unlikely. I have no idea what that talk should be about. Different talks for different couples is the best I can come up with.

I must admit, however that today's image comes pretty close to what I imagine, is mistress and slave having "the talk." Most likely because it's such a strong image. The fact that I like it, because it ticks so many boxes might also have something to do with it. For one, effortless intensity comes to mind, or as I like to call it: her personal gravity.

Wednesday, November 25, 2020


Beyond the complex lies the extra-ordinary

Only a fool refuses to bow to reality.

Forget I was born this way. Part of what makes femdom fun is the endless array of toys and outfits, not to mention the many insanely complex schemes.

Yes, by now I know toys are evil, at least according to the femdom police. Who cares, I'm a rebel by heart. As for naked slaves versus mistresses dressed in leather or rubber, that's very much up to her, don't you agree?   

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