Tight Is The Word

If you're old enough to remember the movie Grease, you know what I'm talking about.

Back in 1976 tight was synonymous with Grease.

Nature or nurture, that's the big question explaining who we [think we] are. Whatever. For as long as he can remember, Dutch has a thing for women in leather pants, cat suits and latex ensembles. It takes time to understand where you're coming from. In my case I cannot help but wondering if Grease is the answer.

In 1976, the movie Grease was the best performer at the box office, starring a young John Travolta opposite Olivia Newton John. If you're about 15 years older than Dutch [circa man on the moon], High School Musical is the word. Same story, different cat. The big if, separating two movies that define two consecutive generations, are Sandy's pants.

Social Distancing Femdom Style With Mistress Devina

Mistress Devina, dominant Indian female. (image: mistress Devina on Twitter.)

Blogging is hard work, especially research. Thanks to Covid-19 and social distancing I finally have some time to look for inspiration. It's hard work but someone's gotta do it. Finally all that time spent online pays off. The other day I stumbled upon the Twitter account of mistress Devina, dominant indian female.

To be honest, what got my attention is the picture above, so intense it almost makes you drop to your knees long distance. In real life I would instantly.

Courtesy of Covid-19, I gave myself time of from research and browsed mistress Devina's Twitter account. When I saw her holding a gun at the 2018 Femdom Retreats, it made me smile. Two years later the world has changed and options to meet like minded kinksters in person are limited. Not my kind of game but outdoor slave hunting is one of the few remaining possibilities. Lead the way please, mistress Devina.

Only thing I don't know is whether that gun is for hunting down slaves or fighting Covid-19. Who cares?

Mistress Devina is on the hunt. (image: mistress Devina on Twitter.)

"Yes Mistress Robot"

Ready to serve the machines?

Where is Sarah Connor when you need her? [1]

Linda Hamilton in Terminator: Dark Fate (2019) as Sarah Connor,  the movie character devoting her life to killing our evil robot overlords.

The original Westworld movie is a 1973 film in which a robot goes haywire and causes mass carnage. More recently, TV show Humans refers to robots as synths. Apart from doing household chores - which makes us slaves obsolete - synths are fully equiped with hidden, but oh so sexy, adult Playstation settings, perhaps for when the wife is away on a business trip or something. Inevitable when it comes this kind of thing the robot is always female. And finally an inventor in China married his robot not to long ago.

When Fear Was Still Fun

The fun of fear is forever in my past. All it took was a single image.

There's no point in breaking down why you're into femdom. But if I have to, I'd say the fun of fear play a major part. Femdom fear is different from, let's say, a horror movie. In the latter case, before and after are pretty much the same. At most it takes some time to fall asleep. Femdom fear, however, is a different beast altogether.

Unlike watching that scary movie - or not - femdom fear is not a choice. You are who you are, denying it is just as impossible as stop breathing just because you're afraid.

Nurse Gypsy & Associates

Dutch is finally a man with a [medical] plan.

Nurse Gypsy and Associates, even their gorgeous smiles have amazing healing power. (Image: Nurse Gypsy & Associates)

The current pandemic is no fun. It's so bad that even a gearhead like Dutch acknowledges that masks are more important than gags, but feel free to combine the two.

As a suave slave, I understand women love a man with a plan, so I've been researching medical facilities. Just in case. Twitter has the answer to everything. Where do you get the best treatment, how competent is the staff and how devoted are they? I came up with a list that I now carry on a laminated card in my wallet. [1]

The Impossible Harry Potter Femdom Quiz

Cuffs and collars, it's a store but exactly what they're selling, I don't know.

By now everybody knows there are no riel slaves left despite the 20 to one numerical advantage that dommes enjoy. As for us slaves, everybody knows we have no limits, no need to brag about that. Put a sock in it. Femdom is way too serious - and being Über-serious hardly ever leads to serious happiness.

After eight straight days of temperatures of 35 degrees Celsius and over - average for August is 21 - Dutch is beginning to recover from a heatstroke. To many, 35 degrees is peanuts, but in a humid country like Holland, humidity makes sweating pointless as a way to cool down your body.

Desperate Slave Eyes

Mistress Sidonia breaks her slave through the sheer force of her personality. [1]

Happiness comes at a price (image: The English Mansion)

Dutch is a longtime admirer of mistress Sidonia von Borcke and The English Mansion. [2] I wrote before about the attention to detail that goes into her videos. Together with the famous, Berlin based, Studio Avalon, The English Mansion is one of very few video labels that continues to stand out after more than two decades.

It's hard to surf the internet and not run into mistress Sidonia. Of course her on camera persona is not the same as the mistress she is in private. The best way to be successful is to do what you love. Because of that I suppose there is a significant overlap between the domme mistress Sidonia is in private and the one she publicly embraces.

"I Embrace Femdom"

Of course I do, much more than I'll ever realize.

Of course that guy isn't me but some model. It's the price you have to pay for flogging useless, overpriced travelgear.

On the way to my local supermarket I come across a couple of bus stops that carry life size advertisements, you cannot miss. For several weeks now one of them has an ad that says "I EMBRACE FEMDOM." Me too dude! Of course it doesn't say that, but it's what I read - or choose to read. Because I do with all my heart.

The Femdom Show (2020)

Some things you don't find on IMDB.

What would The Truman Show look like, if the hero is confined [and loving it] to a world where women are always in charge, dominant and often sadistic?

Reality bites in The Femdom Show.

The Truman Show is a 1998 movie about a man, played by Jim Carey, whose whole life is caught on camera without his permission. He literally lives in a bubble from which it's difficult to escape. The movie is years ahead of the world of surveillance capitalism we know live in. In the end our hero manages to escape, but what if his character is both submissive and lives in a reality occupied by dominant women, he cannot escape?

That's Gross! (Unless You're Up For It?)

There's nothing gross about consensual happiness.

“Three Things
Three things cannot be retrieved:
The arrow once sped from the bow
The word spoken in haste
The missed opportunity."

(Ali the Lion, Caliph of Islam, son-in-law of Mohammed the Prophet)

― Idries Shah, Caravan of Dreams

Frame It

Less is more

Twitter is not my thing. Yes, I have an account but I use it mainly for inspiration. Dutch is old-fashioned, he wants to serve the mistress of his dreams in person. See her, feel her and smell her, but above all the chance to look into her eyes while I surrender. Being on camera is not the same. [1] It doesn't matter if camera means being on Zoom, Skype or looking at porn.