Sunday, March 19, 2023

Holding Hands

Cute & Cruel

Kindness, not pain,  will break any man. The really addictive part is just how playful she does it.

'Sweety is in pain. Let me hold his nipple tight to let him know I'm here for him and will support him all the way. Now let's pump it up.'

Was writing a post for some vanilla blog. Music in the background. All of a sudden Seal singin' "I'll be there.

"This   "
is our fork in the road"

Almost 11 years on, the hammer comes down just as hard. Lust is nice but love is the really good stuff. Connection is what matters most. Agreed, Dutch also has a hard time combining the concepts of the woman who loves you and she who loves to hurt you. Guess the two of them only come together in the best of both worlds. Eat that Netflix!

In the current climate, saying nice things about Russians is not done. Au contrair, punishing an entire country is perhaps the best way to speed up the end of the Russian invasion of Ukraine. So let's ignore the fact that Ivar and his 'dirty priest' are from a country, far, far away.

The ability to combine cruelty with kindness, to control your deepest, darkest desires has long fascinated me. Holding hands while he is in pain that she inflicts is beyond that. So next level.

Never knew such a thing as Pornhub was out there. [1] Thanks Netflix, it's a great tool for 'researching' femdom. Ivan and Dirty Priest are content creators on Pornhub. She is the mistress, he the slave. No idea how mistress came up with Dirty Priest. Probably lost in translation. They are a young couple and what hits me every single time is how laid back mistress Priest is and how much fun she is having. It all feels so casual, natural almost. And then there is that devious smile of hers while she pumps up the... jam? Volume? Electricty? So lovely. There's even this hint of shyness, not that it is stopping her.

Oh sweetie, does it hurt?
Wanna hold hands like it's 1989?

Earlier this week I ran into another clip of them. She ties him down before torturing him with electricity. The pain is real, so is her power over him. But it all looks so cute for lack of a better word. And when it almost gets too much for him, she holds his hand. One of them, the other one she needs to pump up the power. At another point she bows over to comfort him. All that torture is a lot to handle. Or is it? Suddenly one of her breasts is dangling dangerously close to him. Of course he takes the bait. Pain makes you do stupid things you later regret. All I can say is yummy. Probably the very words that sealed his fate.

Boobies are the best
Don't take the bait.

Face the music

Still browsing the 1989 Top 100. I have to. Feels like I've landed myself in some kind of femdom bonanza - emphasis on surrender and how good it is.

Remember Do The Right Thing [Redhead Kingpin and The F.B.I.]? Played in our kitchen all the time. And not because of the clip. Club MTV with Downtown Julie Brown anyone? I fondly remember The Good Life of 1989. Incidentally also a song by Big City. Also an early house track.

Not exactly dungeon quality Enigma but the title of Jive Bunny's 'That's What I Like' feels like it contains a clue. Guess the year that ended the 1980's was a good one. It also was before Google ruled on earth. Cloink! Clunk?

Number 11 in the  Top 100 of 1989 was Rocco Granata and his 'Marina'. What a sensation. Even hearing it today, it never fails to make me smile. Back then it blew up the dance floor at the ripe old age of 30. The original is from 1959. Imagine that for a 30-year old song at the time plus some additional base lines. What was it they said at the time? Turn up the bass. Pump it up? Don't worry, I'll remember. See you next time - in 1989. 

Rocco Granata - Marina '89 [click to listen]

389

It's just as bad out there as the last time you looked. Yes, don't forget but that's not enough. Let's support Ukraine more. And not just with those F-16 fighter jets.


[1] Dutch lives a sheltered life, sorts of.

[2] Usually I'd advocate the beauty of a more age-appropriate mistress and slave relationship but even a grown man, circa first one on the moon, has a hard time resisting her personal gravity. How's that for food for thought?

[3] Her behavior, you know, kind, gently, guiding and gruesome, is enough to break any man. Don't ask me how I'm doing because I'm melting. 

[4] And no, the watermark doesn't say X-hamster. Never heard of it, never been there. Don't even know how to spell Z-Wabbit or whatever you just said.

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