one man's blog on femdom and bdsm. part of me. not all of me.
Sunday, September 14, 2014
Abuse and Exploitation: Fetish Video Producer Convicted
Saturday, August 30, 2014
Kink is all around
It's a big, big [and sometimes kinky] world. |
Holland is such a small country that you simply have to travel the world not to get claustrophobic. This year I travelled to one of those terrible uncomfortable places nobody in their right mind goes to and still managed to have lots of fun. I did not choose the destination for its discomfort, it came with the country. Guess that is the price one has to pay for travelling to such an interesting country.
By sheer coincidence there was this gay couple travelling with our group who were d&s. It took me a while to figure it out. The sub answered everything with either "As you please" or "That would be my pleasure." I started putting the pieces together when I accidentally overheard the sub addressing the dom as sir. After that it all started making sense. When there were not enough chairs, the sub sat on the floor. The locals' hobby was cramming as many people as possible into a single taxi. The sub always sat in the trunk. Once I figured it out I joined him in the trunk whenever necessary. I had to be careful not to burst into roaring laughter every time I jumped in. So funny.
Unfortunately the dom was not a very pleasant person, limited control over his emotions, little personal strength, snapping his fingers at the local staff and so on. I really don't like that so I had to cut him down to size several times - in public. That I liked! Ain't I a stinker. :)
Nothing funnier than real life.
Saturday, August 23, 2014
Toys for (controlling) boys
The first item was the Public Enemy (what's in a name) cb6000 electric chastity cage. It has been done before an electrified chastity cage but the design of the Public Enemy is beautiful. Electrical play can range anywhere from pleasurable to painful to even unbearable. Wearing a device like that really means giving up control. Pleasure also, which makes it for a very interesting control toy. It is an excellent little toy to play mind games. Punishment is only milliseconds away. The only moment when you are probably safe is when you are serving wine.
To complement the electrical chastity cage there are the sacksling electro oxballs, they are probably even more scary. They have two electrical contacts, so you can use them as a standalone toy but combined with the chastity cage it makes for an exciting and scary combination.
Saturday, June 28, 2014
Little She Hulk in Red
"It’s by the Chinese artist Li Wei. Amazingly, as this article describes, it’s not done purely with Photoshop. There is post-processing of the images to remove ropes and harnesses, but the locations and the bodies are real. This particular image is titled ‘Love at the high place 1′."
Friday, June 27, 2014
R100 - Japanese Mainstream Femdom Movie
Thursday, June 05, 2014
Saharah Eve: Dommes Dishing Dommes.
We All Gotta Make a Living
Every time Saharah Eve shows up in my search results I wonder who buys her clips. Her face is blurred, full screen copyright notice and all materials have a footer with a contact e-mail to report copyright infringements. Saharah Eve is free to do with her pics and clips as she likes but it feels like the emphasis is squarely on making money. Does she even enjoy herself? Who knows, her face is blurred.
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Maya Angelou Dies At 86
Today she passed away, aged 86. Her life and struggle represents the lives of (too) many, still with her poetry she left behind a beautiful legacy. Obviously for me it is hard to relate to "I know why the caged bird sings" but "Phenomenal Woman" and "Touched by an Angel" hit so close to home, I'm still trembling. I reprinted "Phenomenal Woman" earlier, below a copy of "Touched by an Angel", which I read for the first time after I reprinted "Phenomenal Woman". Let me highlight two of its most beautiful lines:
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.
Below the full version:
We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.
Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.
We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love's light
we dare be brave
And suddenly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.
Touched By An Angel - Maya Angelou
Friday, April 25, 2014
Maya Angelou: Phenomenal Woman - Poem For A Wonderful Goddess
Thursday, April 24, 2014
The tchurch of twue BDSM strikes again
The BDSM hierachy |
Thursday, April 17, 2014
No Privacy: Google Is Greedier Than Ever
Recently Google changed the default checkbox setting for your Google account to "Stay signed in." supposedly for your convenience but Google's safety recommendations make that hard to believe.
Thursday, April 03, 2014
It is for your own good: Less Privacy, More Vulnerability
Wednesday, April 02, 2014
The Internet Killed Kink
50 Times over
People were into BDSM long before the internet was invented. A post about Ava Taurel reminded me of the feelings I associated with BDSM before I knew what it was all about. My mind painted me a picture of BDSM a delicious, dark, forbidden and mysterious world. It made it all the more desirable.
Friday, March 28, 2014
Robin & Ivy
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
Cruelty to Stuffed Animals
Sunday, March 23, 2014
The Capitalization Debate
A recent message made me wonder about capitalization in English. The answer was unexpected and funny. If you capitalize mistress, you should also capitalize slave. Why anyone wants to refers to themselves as "My" remains a mystery, especially when writing to a stranger on a vanilla topic.
That's not how you spell igo. |
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Fluffy Bunny domination comics
Source: Fluffy Bunny Domination |
Saturday, February 22, 2014
Quotes and me
"There are moments when. whatever the position of the body. the soul is on its knees."
— Victor Hugo
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
The weird world of ‘male chastity’
From a vanilla point of view it is a good article. What I did not know is that the inability to enjoy sex normally again once men have gone down the chastity route is a common problem. Personally that would be a shame. Guess I am so kinky I even like vanilla stuff (but not all the time please).
Full Metal Jacket, down under. |