Part of why I love kink is because I crave crazy more than most. Easily bored
and so on. Recently quite a few dommes showed of their water-boarding skills,
highly irresponsible but very trending at the time.
one man's blog on femdom and bdsm. part of me. not all of me.
Friday, May 11, 2018
Ice Road Truckers - Kink Style
Thursday, April 26, 2018
"Slave to my Wife/Goddess"
"Slave to my Goddess/Wife", somehow that doesn't sound right. For starters you need to change the title into a proper sentence:
"I Am Slave To My Goddess/Wife"
Most news articles will edit the header to look something like this:
"I am a slave to my goddess and wife."
Sunday, April 01, 2018
Fool’s Gold - a Findomme's Life Story
"La la la, girls just wanna have fun" |
As I explained a couple of years ago, we Dutch are notoriously cheap. Not by choice, but if we aren't frugal, the government takes away our passports. It made me the ideal candidate to conduct an interview with Mrs. Florijn, Floor for friends.
Floor is the world's richest and most successful findomme ever. Mrs. Florijn is struggling with her health. Her [other people's] money can buy her any medical treatment there is, no matter how expensive. Unfortunately for her, there is no cure and the doctors have given her a few weeks at most. In our interview we discuss findom in general, including tools of the trade. We also focus on the findom hierarchy, in the form of a little know thing called the findom pyramid.
Wednesday, March 14, 2018
"Start Today With Orgasm Control" - Manga
Thursday, March 08, 2018
Free to Live the Life You Want
Unlike queen Patricia of the Other World Kingdom, not all women are allowed
to enjoy the femdom life from the shadows.
Not the pink catsuit that caught my eye but Nijntje [Miffy]. (Image mistress Baton) |
In retrospect what impressed me most, is how queen Patricia, ruler of that femdom fairy tale, called the Other World Kingdom [OWK], understood privacy 2.0, before anyone else. Twenty years ago the OWK, just like the internet, was in its infancy. Much of the OWK's initial success was due to being an early adaptor of the online world.
To this day, you are haunted by the many, many images of dommes being showcased at the OWK, mostly on a pattern of ageless, rotating recycling. The one person that [doesn't] stand out is queen Patricia, probably because even then she understood, unlike most of us, the upcoming assault on our privacy, the connected world would turn out to be.
Sunday, February 25, 2018
Ex-domme Drains Female Vanilla Students
What do they teach kids today anyway? Crop in hand, latex-clad teacher Mrs. Urbianak at Yale university (Image: Kasia Urbaniak) |
Many years in the corporate world have taught me one thing. Most external advisors don't know what they're talking about. Why? It's not their area of expertise. To make up for that, they try and sell you hot air. I rather take lessons from history instead. Remember the one about that Greek city infiltrated by a wooden horse? Look no further, the dominatrix-enemy is within. There are many life lessons a former pro-domme can teach you. Instead Mrs. Urbaniak opts for cold hard cash at any price. Findom for female suckeresses. Guess that's progress or equality of sorts. Unfortunately those who attend class, will suffer. Uncontrollable inner-domme, anyone?
Tuesday, February 20, 2018
Bed of Nails - A Painful Balancing Act in Stainless Steel
Tech Tuesday for kinksters and the introduction of a modular bed of nails, proudly "made in Germany". Slaves, be afraid, very afraid.
"Let's hope I don't rip my panties" (Image: Explicit Numerics) |
What do you think when you see metal bondage gear "made in Germany?" Keep in mind that originally "made in Germany" was meant as a warning for British consumers against supposedly inferior products from abroad. Wrong! That was in 1887 and it backfired spectacularly. Since then "Made in Germany" has become synonymous with quality.
Saturday, February 17, 2018
Mistress Knows Best - Terms & Conditions Apply
On top of all the office fun, he gets a salary too. |
Kink is not a self-help book. No matter how often I repeat that, nobody listens. I should have know better than to heap praise on The New York Times. The Gray Lady's article on "how to deal with men" sounds very much like an infomercial for ex-dominatrix Kasia Urbaniak's Academy. All of that can be forgiven if Mrs. Urbaniak had something real to offer to her students. Unfortunately she is one of the many exploiting the freak element of femdom for personal gain. Most likely the average woman is better off not attending her classes.
Tuesday, February 13, 2018
Finally, the Audience Is ‘Fifty Shades Freed’
The new Fifty Shades movie is terrible. For once trust the critics. The honeymoon is over. At last!
Now that's what I call a red room! (Image Tom Foolery/2012 Seattle Erotic Art Festival) |
"Fifty Shades Freed” earned $38.8 million and the top spot at the North American box office. The considerably more family-friendly “Peter Rabbit” came second." Yes that is The New York Times. Comes with free [digital] delivery and complementary irony. Well played Gray Lady!
All right, I'll spare you the horrors of discussing Fifty Shades 3.0 on Valentines Day, but we really have to talk about it. After all, how much non-consensual abuse is acceptable, even for kinksters?
Sunday, February 11, 2018
Porn on TV and the Rejection of Kink
Tuesday, February 06, 2018
NCIS - Where Victims of Abuse Turn Masochist
TV show NCIS portrays masochists as victims of abuse and looking for penance through pain rather than consenting adults born this way. It's all about the ratings baby.
"Very, very weird" (Image: NCIS) |
Fool me once... Well, you know how it goes. Looking East to salvage my illusion that kink on TV can serve as goodwill ambassador, I was naive. In what would be the penultimate episode of this series, even Japan's anime series Prison School doesn't respect those who are alternatively inclined.