Monday, December 22, 2025

Mr. and Mrs. Smith

Two Can Play That Game

Whatever you do, bound by love makes it better.

Who let the dogs of [shared pain and pleasure] out?

In 2018 I wrote about being free to live the life you want. That post featured five very different dominant women. But the world is bigger than just vanilla and dominant women. 

Whether or not pet play is your thing, better make sure all you want for Christmas this year is equal opportunities. Including those for pain and suffering independent of whether you're female or male. The cruelest thing in the world is to demand for all women to be dominant. That's no way to serve them! You are what you are. Be kind to others and chase happiness with a vengeance.

Why shouldn't a woman be submissive? Who are we men to deny her equals rights in the area of BDSM. He screams, she screams. He is crushed under the weight of all that humiliation, so is she.

Look at this. Do you know how you can tell they are in love? They share a bowl of water. Or is it the fire in her eyes? Interesting question, what would it be like if you are both submissive and session together with a domme. Imagine, it's one week later, Sunday morning and you both wake up and look at each other. Somehow the conversation drifts towards that session seven days before and how intense and intimate it was. How you felt connected and how you enjoyed to see the other one suffering happily. Or later, when mistress tied the two of you up, looking eye to eye as she lashed out her whip again and again. Agony and pain yes but also physical pleasure and mental joy. Shared with the one you love and understand. Maybe even a bit of arousal. That went nowhere . Mistress wouldn't let it. She rather see the two of you wriggle, desperate for it.

Must be magical to have someone who shares and accept your feelings and is desperate to share your fate, no matter how harsh. And just when you can no more and are desperate to scream for mercy, she comes to the resuce. You feel her perky little breasts rubbing against your chest. The stories they tell. As if she is whispering to you: don't give up on our dream. Loosely translated as: "chin up sweetie, it's not over yet. Things only get worse, we're gonna suffer together and it'll be the best thing we ever did. It's hard to say no to such a indecent proposition and you really don't want to let her down. Whenever, wherever, no man suffers more than a fool in love. It's kind of the ultimate bondage but afterwards when you look in her eyes. That's why.

Unfortunately it's not a story you're gonna tell your grandkids. Instead, why not encourage them to chase their dreams like 'we' did.


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What is there left to say about our betrayal. It'll come back to haunt us. But that's not the reason we should've supported Ukraine full force from the start. It's because it's the right thing to do. And we failed. 

Evgeniya Emerald used to run a jewelry business. She also became a mom. Then Russia invaded. This is what came next. 

Ukraine has no choice. We do. And failed. Let's pray Ukraine, in the end, will not.


Notes

[1] Odd but true, I find it incredibly hard to see female subs suffer. Almost as if it's wrong. It's not because it's what they want and choose. Still, it's difficult to watch even for someone who should know better.


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