one man's blog on femdom and bdsm. part of me. not all of me.
Wednesday, December 23, 2020
Sunday, December 13, 2020
Of Circles And Squares
Everybody knows circles are by definition perfect
Explaining the true nature of beauty or happiness is impossible. Don't read on.
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Pretty much self-explanatory. I'll leave it at that. |
Circles and squares represent the arch-type of what it means to be human, once you get rid of life's bloatware. Two geometrical figures sum up the essence of female and male. Lean in, look closer and observe. Circles and squares are highly similar, yet oh so different. When in doubt, emphasize what connects them. Not convinced? Grab a random stranger and ask. As soon as Mr. Square catches his breath, he can't stop talking about the overwhelming similarities between both forms. No surprise there, a man's life revolves around certain Wonderful Girls, Magical Creatures and their beautiful, rounded corners. [1] Just not because of that.
Saturday, December 12, 2020
Berlin's Studio Avalon Is Closing Down
No More Happy Surrender In Berlin's Paradisal Underworld Realm
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Herrin Mercedes [L] and Lady Marlon [R] (image: Avalon website) |
After reading about it, Dutch banged his head against the table for a long time. Amsterdam to Berlin is only 650km (400 miles) by car or about six hours' drive. One day, or so I told myself. Too late. At the end of October the famous Berlin dungeon closed down for good. The Avalon website reads:
"suddenly you realize it's time to start something new and to let go of what was." [1]
Wednesday, December 02, 2020
China's Uighur Minority Locked Up In Concentration Camps
Identity is not about what meets the eye
If you don't look like us or act like us, you can never be like us. Just in case you didn't get why I don't like the current OWK's management. More on that later.
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A cinema in Beijing, where Disney’s live-action “Mulan” opened to tepid reviews. (Image: The New York Times) |
Missed my deadline. Blame Covid -19. Running late for this year's post on International Day for the Abolation of Slavery - Modern Day Slavery for short. That was on December 02. Yes, my blogging calendar is full, but don't worry, I'll never miss this one entry. It's the single, most important day for all that have crossed over to the Dark Side. BDSM, femdom, it's up to us to accept or renounce. We're free to say yes or no. And no, our preferences are not generally accepted, but in the greater scheme of things, who dares complaining?
Saturday, November 28, 2020
Let's Have The Talk
All of a sudden Dutch is all ears
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To be the recipient of her personal gravity is nothing but a privilige. |
The other day I was watching a re-run of The Big Bang Theory on Netflix. Cue next episode and suddenly I find myself watching science geek Sheldon giving his Mum "the talk" about safe sex. Odd, very odd.
One can only wonder if there is such a thing as a femdom equivalent of "the talk". I don't know, but it feels highly unlikely. I have no idea what that talk should be about. Different talks for different couples is the best I can come up with.
I must admit, however that today's image comes pretty close to what I imagine, is mistress and slave having "the talk." Most likely because it's such a strong image. The fact that I like it, because it ticks so many boxes might also have something to do with it. For one, effortless intensity comes to mind, or as I like to call it: her personal gravity.
Wednesday, November 25, 2020
Intimacy
Beyond the complex lies the extra-ordinary
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Only a fool refuses to bow to reality. |
Forget I was born this way. Part of what makes femdom fun is the endless array of toys and outfits, not to mention the many insanely complex schemes.
Yes, by now I know toys are evil, at least according to the femdom police. Who cares, I'm a rebel by heart. As for naked slaves versus mistresses dressed in leather or rubber, that's very much up to her, don't you agree?
Wednesday, November 11, 2020
11/11 Today Is My Birthday
The best humiliation money can buy.
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Caged birds of a feather |
For years I've been loath to talk about certain intimate details. Some say, audacity doesn't become an inferior slave like Dutch. Despite that I humbly beg you to read on.
Because I'm a terrible submissive, it's hard to consensually-non-consensual humiliate me. It's complicated, I know. Like you, I wonder what kind of world we live in where slaves are allowed to make a living in the first place. Financial independence for slaves is the worst idea ever. Take away our jobs and give us free money and proper humiliation instead. It's the kind of shameful existence we deserve.