Thursday, October 02, 2025

Summer's End

Outdoor humiliation looking for shelter


Early October and summer left the building early this year. Missing for a month at least or so. Holland looks gray. Definitely no Indian summer, just plain old misery. Yes I know it's Locktober - the perfect opportunity to quit [1] - but I'm talking the weather here.

Late summer holiday and camping plans? Why not book a hotel instead? Hotels always makes me wonder. Why are there are so many copies of Real Housewives, Humanity [hopefully]'s Got Talent and so on but nobody every comes up with something akin to Hardcore Hotel Stories. I mean, the stuff that goes on there. And yes I'm also thinking lazy porn videos being shot for quick cash in random rooms. Actually, my second-favourite femdom video of all time was probably shot in a hotel room but I'll leave that for another time.

It's important to emphasize the freedom to fantasize. These are troubled times and people easily forget. Just don't tell anyone. Ever. Equally important is to never enforce kink on nonconsenting people. That's what makes these images so lovely. Feel free to dream about what could've happened. At the same time these are drawings, creating a clear divide between reality and fantasy. After all, in the Vanilla World most people would be shocked if they were confronted with a scene like this. Imagine your 18-year old daughter making some extra money during the holidays by cleaning hotel rooms. She'd be cool with it? Are you sure? Let's turn the tables. What if she walks in on a man who has tied up a woman in a hotel room like that?

Luckily this is a fantasy for folks like you and me. Literally harmless entertainment. And it is lovely drafted. Kudos to the artist for visualizing the harsh reality that is strange eyes looking [down] upon you. It's different for everyone but to me adding strangers to the mix is exceptionally cruel. It crushes you in so many ways. Without mistress I would probably not survive. Of course it's good to be a slave. Even better serving your Love and mistress. Suddenly a stranger walks in. You're instantaneously being reduced to what? Nothing? Zero?. It becomes a battle between shame and humiliation. That's harsh. An event like that deflates any remaining ego a slave might have. It makes you feel so small and lowly, the real you [me]. So, once again a lovely series of images. If you know the artist, please leave a comment.


Face the Music

Ejae, Audrey Nuna, and Rei Ami - Golden

What would be a good name for a K-Pop girl band with a side hustle of keeping the world safe from monsters? KPop Demon Hunters is a bona fide megahit for Netflix. Intellectual property increasingly drives long-term value, ask any domme with a succesful C4S store, or Sony. However, rather than taking risks the Japanese company sold over the IP rights to Netflix. And now vanilla sadistic women all over the world use K-Pop demon hunters to punish their boyfriends for whatever they did wrong by watching the animated movie together. How many guys do you think will remember the name of the band? If you have to ask, its Huntrix.

jae, Audrey Nuna, and Rei Ami - Golden [click to listen]

1317

"Putin praises Trump but warns that supplies of US long-range missile to Ukraine will badly hurt ties."

At least the bad guy remembers. Don't give up on Ukraine, please don't. Give 'm what they need to defend their freedom. It's years overdue. What would you want if the tables were turned? That's why. 


Notes

[1] In Holland the month of October is also called Stoptober, AKA quitting nicotine.

[2] Get there's a lot of quitting going on in October. Erections [and more], smoking. Stop smoking is always a great idea. Erections and orgasms perhaps not so much. As usual, more on that later.


Monday, September 01, 2025

Burning Man Festival F.O

High Stakes at the Lost & Found Department, Femdom Style

Beach to desert to beach to desert. Going back and forth can get quite complicated, just like a trip to the beach.

slave tied up naked in the desert femdom bdsm mistress dominatrix
I hope you didn't forget to apply sun block to your special place mate.

I'm sorry, I meant a trip to the beach can get quite complicate if you're mistress and slave rather than clasic vanilla she and he. Appearances count. After all, we live in the golden age of social media. There's alwayws the risk of someone taking a picture of the two of you and posting it to Fetlife. You can thank Big Tech for that.

Now imagine a world where mistress and slave go to the beach and everybody thinks it's normal for a man to be a slave to the woman he loves. [Yes, hopefully she loves him back.] So many questions when I saw this image for the first time but mostly what happened. Questionmark.

Most people probably assume mistress forgot to lock her property in a chastity device and in order to protect him from harming himself while she had to step out for a moment, she made sure he was safe. I'm not so sure. My guess? This is the result of a lovers' tiff, him being a bit naughty, so she left him there to think about what he did wrong. Or perhaps she decided to trade him in for a better slave and left him on the beach to be collected by the femdom police and hopefully find a new, better domme for him. Who knows? Glad my summer didn't end like this.


Sunday, August 31, 2025

Private Holiday Tales from Holland

Less privacy in exchange for more safety. Or?

Leave me alone please dear cows.

Look at the image and try to guess why mistress suddenly pushes my head to the ground. Privacy you say, because mistress wants to make sure the horse on the left wouldn't see my face? But what about her right to privacy? Perhaps, or maybe she was trying to be funny while she said it. I don't know and it doesn't matter. Mistress is always right. She decides, I obey.

Then again if you live in Britain these days, privacy is harder than ever. They finally did it: age verification to protect the innocent. I recently ran into it on Twitter. At home in Holland! Media on certain profiles is no longer available because of age restrictions and the inability to correctly tell the jurisdiction I am in. Is there really nowhere to go for sun? Or privacy?

Saturday, August 30, 2025

Rainy Femdom Holiday

Yes, it's August, technically summer to. Not that you can tell because of the rain. Now imagine you're camping in the Netherlands and getting bored. What do you do? Go for a walk like any normal mistress and slave would do of course. 

OK, this image is definitely fake. Despite that it hit a button, reminding me of the many rainy summers when I was in secondary school. No, not because I was on a leash, crawling naked through a puddle of mud (underage and so on, yes?) but because of the wet land and dark skies.

And yes, I would've been a deeply happy 16-year old to spend a holiday like that with my Girlfriend and mistress. Long before I was of legal age I knew where my interests lie. Not that it would make a difference in just how kinky I am, after all I was born this way. Also born in this wet country.


Friday, August 29, 2025

Desert Holiday

"on a desert highway"

["cruel whip in my back"]

Last time I wrote how some guys have all the luck when it comes to holidays. Today not so much. The image tries to convince us the car broke down and he is to blame. Hence her whip. Whatever they are selling us, it's definitely not the benefits of femdom.

Don't know where the image is from, but it feels like an ad. And not a good one because whatever it is trying to sell you, you won't remember. We all know what men will remember most from this image. The car.

Thursday, August 28, 2025

Kink on the Beach

Who said romance is dead?

August and summer is [or should be] in full swing here in the Northern hemisphere. In a tiny country called the Netherlands the situation is pretty awful. Instead of raining cats and dogs it's raining monkeys and donkeys. And yes that's made up but would you rather have me saying it's raining pijpestelen [rain like lead pipes]? Thought so.

Let's hope the weather clears up soon and we can head for the beach to have some fun. A while back this image caught my attention. Real, fake, AI? I don't know but it gives off a lovely, sincere vibe. It has a certain kind of intimacy, almost like they are in a special place of their own. Clearly some guys have all the luck when it comes to summer holidays.


Friday, August 22, 2025

Push-Down on the Beach

A slave can dream

Suggestions for a sunny femdom holiday.

Woman sitting on man at the beach femdom public play

If I cannot spend my summer in madame Catarina's garden of Eden, I want to go to the beach. And look what I found. No clue what or why this is but it feels so natural. If only. For those of us into femdom, we know some options in live are just not available. Not sure what's going on here but it definitely feels like my kind of trip to the beach.

She looks pretty serious about holding him down. He? He is calm, almost detached, if it was me I would be jumping with joy. OK, that kinda misses the point but a little more appreciation might be in order. When her friend arrives, smiling, also with a couple of beers, she places her foot in his face. Just another day in paradise. Just remember folks, your definition of paradise may differ from mine. Who cares, this is such a lovely image. 

The image was originally a gif but that no longer works on Blogger so I broke it down. 

Next time mistress and I take a more romantic trip to the beach.


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