About


"Half of what I say is meaningless,
but I say it so that the other half may reach you."
— Kahlil Gibran: Sand and Foam (1926)

The 11
11? Individual digits of a phenomenally important date, added up. I wrote a long post about it. You can skip the first half, where I poke fun of slave names. Then again, perhaps you shouldn't.

The Man
Of course I am Dutch. I am also male and no I don't have boyish looks or anything. I am a man. Think I have the right to be called a man by now. I love to travel, totally addicted to music. I know everybody is, but I got it worse. I enjoy DIY. Even though I hide it well, I am a part time geek, who is a voracious reader and although not an IT guy, loves tech.

What do women think of me: Who knows? Or perhaps the same thing men do.
What do men think of me: What does she see in him?

You really should ask others but good habits include being persistent, curious, independent, don't take things to seriously - unless I have to, lots of energy and above all kind to stuffed animals.

Bad habits: Restless, easily bored, find it difficult to relax, demanding, prone to overthink.
Guilty pleasure: isn't being into kink enough? OK, just one. I'm somewhat rebellious.

The Slave
As far as my kink goes, I am definitely not lifestyle, Fetlife calls it "bedroom only", but that isn't apt either. If the lifestyle is 100 percent kinky then I am at 40 percent. Happy childhood - no reason for my kink other than born this way. Late to the party, started exploring around 2010. Why? Not sure, best answer because life was always very good, I just didn't get around to it.

The Blog
I am intrigued by BDSM, the role reversal, enjoying stuff that shouldn't make sense. Part of my writing deals with that fascination. When I read about a slave who asked if he was allowed to leave his mistress, I began to think about the difference between in an out of character and the discrepancy between qualities people claim to have and how they behave. 
There are a few personal posts, some items related to what makes the news and finally every now and then I write something about stuff I enjoy or am interested in.

The Woman
What attracts me in a woman: kindness, compassion, give rather than take, intelligence (not to be confused with education), fun and honesty but also somebody who impresses me in some way, positive outlook on life and strength of character. And she has to be wild, preferably combined with a little wickedness.
What type of woman I'm attracted to? No clue whatsoever, but I can't resist women with a smile.
What attracts me in a mistress: the woman plus a little bit of compatibility in kink.
Available: Whatever.

"There are no little events with the heart. It magnifies everything; it places in the same scales the fall of an empire of fourteen years and the dropping of a woman's glove, and almost always the glove weighs more than the empire."
— Honore de Balzac

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