one man's blog on femdom and bdsm. part of me. not all of me.
Thursday, July 25, 2013
Kinky Lego: Fifty Shades Of Bricks
Sunday, May 26, 2013
Viagra for Women: Yes We Can. But Should We?
Fifty years ago the birth control pill gave woman sexual freedom, Twenty years ago viagra for men was introduced. The next step seems to be a pill for woman that increases their libido.
The male variety has not to do with desire. It is about body mechanics. |
The New York Times just published a long read about Viagra for women. The drug is called Lybrido. Unexcited? There May Be a Pill for That. Lybrido is currently undergoing testing to see if it can be approved. It works on the brain creating [artificial] desire. Viagra for men works on the body but only when the man is already aroused. The article is rather long and boring. The comments however are the icing on the cake. A quick reading shows most people do not like the idea.
"How about a male less desire drug?" comments one reader. Others fear that women get pressured into taking pills.
Whether vanilla or kinky, sex in a relationship is essential. Sex is great fun. It brings two people closer to one another, strengthening and reinforcing their bond. At first I thought the drug was a good thing. That was before I realized how commerce, TV and social media will pressure people into taking the drug. After all we all want to be normal and average...
Thursday, May 23, 2013
Sexual Chocolate Wine
Friday, May 17, 2013
Your Own Spankalicious Tardis Paddle
Geeks love Doctor Who and kinksters apparently too. Found this paddle on Tumblr. Clearly some one with too much time on their hands created their own spankalicious tardis. Doctor's orders. Lol.
The Tardis: Not only bigger on the inside but kinky as well. (Image: Gaming in your underwear) |
Friday, May 10, 2013
Light sculpture by Forms in Nature
Perfect for the dungeon that dares to be different (Image: Hilden Diaz) |
Sunday, May 05, 2013
Dominance In Space: The secret logs of Mistress Janeway
Alpha in the Delta quadrant. (Image: Novad.org)
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In the 1990s Star Trek dominated the tv screens of sci-fi fans once again. Star Trek Voyager began her journey in 1995 with Kate Mulgrew as Captain Kathryn Janeway. She was the first female commanding officer in a leading role in the history of Star Trek. I watched it whenever I could. Years later I saw the Trekkies documentary. Clearly kinky people are not the only ones who love to dress up. It had a short segment on Captain Janeway as a dominatrix.
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Baucis & Philemon: Not Your Average Hollywood Love Story
Hollywood does not do a better job. Most movies are about young, attractive people who have to overcome some kind of obstacle before everlasting bliss starts. For a love story of a different kind look at the ancient Greeks.
Source: Redtree times |
Saturday, March 16, 2013
About this blog
Sunday, January 27, 2013
My Naughty Boy Avatar
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Choices: Why My Tumblr Describes Me
With each and every mouse click I reveal what's personally hot or not.
Selecting dozens of images for my photo blog every day, reveals a lot about me and my preferences, often unintentionally Interested observers can find out things about me, I didn't know myself. Pretty cool but also scary.
In selecting images, you reveal who you are. |
As far as kink goes I prefer pictures over words. I enjoy a good story but in the end I prefer images. Unless somebody is a gifted writer, a picture tells a thousand words. At the beginning of 2013 I started my own Tumblr blog. I love it: The diversity, the passion with which people express what they like about kink, the beauty if it all.
Tuesday, January 01, 2013
11dutch: What's in a Name?
Of course the name 11dutch has special meaning. Silly question. It all started with me opening a Twitter account. I needed a nom de plume and was reminded of an old fairy tale. It is a funny story but you can skip it if you like.