Serving Through Sex

Fastlove

Turns out Dutch is not such a bad slave after all. Who would've guessed?

Don't be afraid little one. Just enjoy the ride.

The story of giving through many, many nights of la petite mort. Dedicated to the cause. Proud to Serve. Privileged. Happy. Without realizing, still going strong after several decades. Unwittingly Dutch found true happiness in his teens, twenties, thirties and even today through random servitude. Now I understand. So grateful. More please unless you have better plans.

Man Serves Women Through One-Night Stands. I never thought this day would come. Remember how they said 2021 would be the Summer of Sex and how it'd never end? Didn't happen. No, not because of your locked-up carrot, it's evil Covid talking you silly. Now they're promising us an end to the pandemic [1]. Who knows what happens next? Something clearly needs to happen, that much is clear.

Chasing the world's ultimate clickbait headline Guardian columnist Zoe Williams explains "how Covid killed the one-night stand – and made us all kinkier." She doesn't, her writing is convoluted and hard to read. Luckily, like all good journalism #realfacts (tm) (c), the important stuff comes first. Paragraph one: "There has been a sharp drop in one-off encounters, researchers say, but more people are enjoying friends with benefits and getting experimental in bed."

The 2020 National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal) unveils how the lockdown helps grow sexual intimacy between couples. As a result bored lock-downies of a certain age are buying sex toys in order to explore bedroom kink [2]. Isn't trust great, now is it? [4] The other outcome is a steep drop in one-night stands. [7] As for those who still have one-night stands, in a sense they don't. Instead they prolong them over several days and weeks. So much for wham, bam, bye bye, this is my bed ma'am.

Don't be surprised when I tell you that even real people, in the pre-pandemic days, really enjoyed one-night stands. Of course they do. D'oh!

"Sex therapist Jenny Keane hosts a wide-ranging sex chat through her Instagram account. On it, one woman wrote appreciatively:

“The sex is purely focused on pleasure. You’re not thinking about your relationship dynamics, them not doing the dishes. It’s about being served and cared for physically. It can be a very empowering and beautiful thing.”"

By now you know I love women. And sex. Reading this makes me happy. I also love orgasms [give or take], kinky stuff and wicked women in white [including doctors and nurses, just not exclusively]. As for carrot-shaped prison toys: sometimes but never 24/7 to infinity. Men are made to love women and vice versa. Even if you know the two of you will never meet again, sex bonds, so why don't you? Not everything is about love. [8]

Life's just a ballgame, with love being the odd one out. Meanwhile I'd never expect Gaia to be such a sadist. Why not blissfully pair boys and girls for a life full of monogamous love, lust and happiness? Instead it has to be complicated. Femdom is no different. Clearly Gaia is more than a goddess, she's a woman. [3] [6]

Honestly? Part of the whole girl meets boy thing is the two of them heading of to erotic city, where people of every nation dance together, doing their little dance untill they're to tired to consume it's fruits. Gaia is truly a cruel mistress. Femdom is even worse.

In our community sadness is sacred. Happiness is a fool's game. Love, lust and sex? Don't even get me started. Some say femdom should be the exclusive playground of non-lust, non-loving players. Never. I beg to differ. Women are beautiful. Desire is good. Sex should be [great]. Yes I love women. I also love sex. Combine the two with a generous dose of love and the sun never sets. No love, just locking eyes, waiting for tonight? With or without matters of the heart, women and sex are an awesome combo. Just gaze back at her as she locks eyes. Talk back. Tell her who you are. Eyes, it's the one part of women where Gaia 'forgot' to add a little shyness. Ever looked into her eyes, taken aback when she replies "I like what I see and am not shy about what I want?" Now you know why. First time it happens to you it's beyond gorgeous. From there on things only get better. After a while you catch your breath and learn to talk back. Eyes meeting eyes, speaking a language of their own. Why? Eyes don't lie. Whatever [body] language you speak, be honest. The truth will always find a way to liberate itself. Honesty, honour is what's lacking from modern femdom. Once upon a time it was about boy loves [likes] girl and does all kinds of crazy things to make her like him too. Whether they both were into vanilla or kinky stuff didn't matter. These days pure femdom is served as something superior to strive for, untainted by carnal desire, connectivity or even being human. She's mistress robot. Served by her trusty roboslave. Why? Why would you? Where's the woman you long for?

Let me make this perfectly clear. I want a woman. A real one - woman that is, just not anyone. A female that can multitask, combining love, care and cruelty effortlessly. Someone who falls asleep in my arms, whether she's left her mark on my back or not just before. A woman who spends time on sensual hobbies such as Wicked Women in Leather. If she loves me and I love her and if she on top of it all wants to be my mistress: YES! If not, I'll love her all the same. Eventually any woman I tend fall in love with has that wonderful wickedness hard-wired into her. Why not enjoy it together? Enjoy as in enjoy because we share something in common that is more than me so horny.

Women are glorious, they are beautiful, it's what makes life worth living. Gaia might be a sadist, but a cunning one having invented the natural attraction between girls and boys. Sex is just an outcome, one of many. Still 'our community' often believes there's no place for sex when it comes to femdom. Really? Do you think you are woman [or man] enough to go against the great Goddess' Gaia's wishes? Clearly you believe you can outsmart a Wonderful Goddess. Don't.

Love makes people whole. So does trust. Sex adds to that. But what is most important is lying next to each other afterwards, smiling, perhaps telling silly jokes [5] or being silent. Happily feeling blessed, side by side, together. There's no bonding agent like sex. It's good to be close even if it's for a single night. But if sex [and orgasms] are such a great tool to connect two people why are so many submissive men in chastity? It cannot be the sexless/industrial complex.

Badass Boss Lady. He neither appreciates her handywork nor her white dress. What a waste.

Today's post is a three-parter. First there's the article about Covid killing one-nights stands while aiding kink. Later this morning I discovered there actually is something that is called Orgasm Day. It's on July 31th. [11] And finally I ran into today's image. Yes, they're both actors. Doesn't make her any less of a boss lady. One can only wonder if her giving him a handjob is her idea of having a good time or his. Whatever the outcome, he'll remembering it for a long time. Orgasms are powerful things. Despite that, the power of an orgasm - especially when it comes to femdom - is often ignored. Orgasms can be routine, rewards, training, humiliating or outright diabolic. Why spoil slaves by keeping them caged?  Chastity is like teflon. Give a man what he craves the most, then take what you want. Don't worry, he'll survive. And come back for more. Orgasms should be part of every woman's toy chest. They are the - often cruel - gift that keeps on giving, whether he likes it or not,  long after he first starts to regret them.

Conclusion: actor or no actor, orgasm or not, this is such a powerful image that perfectly captures just how intense an orgasm can be under the right mistress. Hot, harsh, humiliating and him begging for more. Yep femdom is also definitely about sex, at least part of. Just keep in mind that despite how it looks, a slave's reward often is much more cruel than it looks. 

George Michael - Fastlove (1996) (click image to listen on Youtube)

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[1] Perhaps because Covid-19 becomes endemic rather than pandemic. Who knows?

[2] Plus with restaurants, bars and pubs closed and no vacation people were left with money to burn.

[3] Not very devotional but I don't know how else to put it.

[4] Don't you dare say no. Trust rules. After love that is.

[5] Silly jokes you said? Dutch excels at them. Or so I [think] 'm told. They also tell me my timing is a little of when it mattes most. Now, that's not funny at all. Time to find myself a funny, guiding Love and mistress. Where art thou?

[6] Imagine is Gaia was a guy. Quelle horreur!

[7] Does wearing a chastity device stop you from having one-night stands during lockdown? Don't worry, my carrot is still in it's prime, send me your email and I'll send you proof. Just asking for a friend of a friend. I'm not into that kinky stuff. Why would I [give into happiness?] Too cool for that.

[8] Hear, hear.

[11] Don't tell mistress. I can already hear her grin, telling me how she will allow me 11 orgasms, no more, no less on Orgasm Day, being the caring mistress she says she is.