Talk First, Play Later

Princess Natasha Strange on Common Misconceptions and Pro-Dommes

Talk first, play later? Or is it: think first, play later? Who cares?

Princess Natasha Strange (Image: website Natasha Strange)

Paltego almost daily writes an article for his Femdom Resource blog. He also closely monitors the best femdom writing all around. Unfair, what's left for Dutch to write about?

Actually, a lot. For some reason I enjoy talking to people. Of course I've never visited a professional dominatrix but afterwards I actually managed to have a conversation with some of them. Lessons learned? Talk first, play later. Even I didn't see that one coming. Also sorry. Busy day. I mean my best friend's pervy play time. Whatever.

Princessa Natasha Strange is a professional dominatrix and dungeon owner in Portland, Oregon, USA. This April she wrote a post on some of the most common misconceptions professional dominatrices are facing. 

 

1. The people who hire pro dommes are powerful men cheating on their wives.
True. Of course it is. But only when it comes to men who marry the woman they love before they get rich and powerful.

2. Dominatrix are only interested in inflicting pain
Why else pay for the services of a professional dominatrix? Personal gravity is so overrated. Besides, personal gravity is invisible to the naked eye. Naked is good though.

3. It’s about sex
Art is. Whatever remains? Whatever you can get away with? Whatever you want it to be? Whatever it says it is? Whatever charity that gets you the highest tax deduction?

Let's talk about sex after you figure this one out.

4. Dominatrixes are all man hating lesbians
Spot on, welcome to my 20 to one universe. What else explains the huge difference in numbers? Masochistic men deserve cruelty. Or was it submissive men?

5. Being submissive is humiliating
Chasing true happiness never is. Nor is being a smart sub. And why are men such smart subs? Because we listened to our Moms who told us over and over again, there's a place and time for everything. Just make sure to protect your privacy at all times.

6. The best Mistress is the prettiest Mistress
Of course it is and if you don't understand why my Love and mistress is the prettiest [best] of them all, there's no job waiting for you in the Disney animation department. Or the prospect of ever serving a riel domme. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news

As for the capitalization debate, nobody thinks that's sexy.

7. It’s all about the fetish wear
Of course it is. If that weren't true, I'd preach the gospel of personal gravity forever and ever. As an added bonus, consent goes out the window if she - sorry disrespectful - Her Mistressship [English is not my native tongue, apologies] looks hot enough, whatever that means.

8. Dominatrix have no other job prospects
This one struck a chord with Paltego. No idea why. Just between you and me, all dominatrices do is wear leather, inflict pain and hate men. Why change jobs? Or tells us when they do? [1]

9. Dating a dominatrix is all fun and games
Of course it is and if you look into her eyes 11 times, you'll live happily ever after. Plus a free coupon to visit the upside down.

10. Only in it for the money
Back in the old days things were different. That was before Covid-19 and clients struggling to pay rent, asking for a discount. It's also why Melly Shum Hates Her Job.

11. Other than that?
It's an excellent 10-point listicle from princess Natasha Strange.

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[1] One day I'll tell you about my love of straight jackets. Just not today.