Men Who Are Afraid of Dominant Women

Ask yourself, what are you really looking for in a dominant woman?

From before I threw out my bucket list, German pro-domme lady Pascal. Because she has that enigmatic quality. Her smile doesn't hurt either.

One thing that has always surprised me is just how young the average pro-domme is. Despite the fact that too many life stylers in 'our community' rage against pro-dommes - while demanding 'tribute' before that first, initial contact - the dislike is disgusting. Never understood.

Of course looks are important, but what attracts me is not the same thing that attracts you. To each his own. When it comes to erotic qualities, men divide women into two categories: hot vs sexy. We inevitably go for the latter and the two of them do not necessarily overlap. A better description perhaps is hot, as in defined by popular opinion vs sexy as in what turns you on. So silly, so many missed opportunities for everyone. Before you nod in approval, let me caution you, don't mistake hot for marriage material. That comes with it's own set of rules, these days mostly based on rigid social stratification. When was the last time you heard of a doctor marrying his nurse? If that gets you thinking, turn it around, can you remember a time when a doctor married her nurse? We live in interesting times, indeed.

Looks are irrevelant, a smile may bring you to your knees, but in the end it's the eyes that make you surrender. (Image: lady Pascal)

Ever wondered where all of the older pro-dommes go? So have I. Just like you need to nurture your submissiveness over the years, in order to be able to truly enjoy it and be more at ease with it, dominance [femdom style] also grows over the years. That makes you wonder where have all the good pro-dommes gone?

My guess is that most men are too scared to truly surrender to a dominant woman, if only for an hour, so they chicken out and go for a young, 'hot' girl who feels less overwhelming. Perhaps that is why the pro-domme industry places a premium on youthful looks. It's just as silly as choosing a surgeon because she is young and hot for your triple bypass. Vanilla or real world emergency, if you make stupid choices like that, it's no wonder most of us don't survive the onslaught. Arrgh.