Femdom Is Evil Says No Fap

Read on if you want to learn why Dutch is not fit to be an agony aunt.

Pure bliss: real people, real femdom, deep smiles and superb happiness, how can that be wrong? (Don't look at her boobies for the answer.)

Forget everything I ever wrote, especially yesterday's post about cruel canes that care. I'm such a fool. Femdom is not beautiful. It has nothing to do with women, love or sex. It's worse than not going to church. And the only thing worse than that is going to the wrong church.

I'm so glad I stumbled upon No Fap [NoFap®], a comprehensive community-based porn recovery website that offers tools to connect with a supportive community of individuals determined to quit porn use and free themselves from compulsive sexual behaviors. Don't believe the hype.

A life spent serving the woman you love is a life well spent.
- Dutch

Ahum, the day I entered puberty, looking at the girl in class that morning, I knew I was in heaven - sorry, I mean destined to live a life full of compulsive sexual behaviour. Because that's what sex is. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy, they hold hands and 60 years later they still laugh about that awkward first kiss. All the kinky stuff that happened in between only made them happier and more connected. They're both in wheelchairs now and with Covid on the rise again, their great grandkids have to wait to take them out for a stroll until the young ones have had their shots too.

As the nurse wheels him to the bathroom, he says:

'Don't go anywhere my Love and mistress, I'll be right back.'

'I'll be waiting'

The couple bursts into laughter. Not because neither of them has the strength left to move their wheel chair but because of the memories of the past. Without that compulsive sexual behavior, there wouldn't been any kids, grandchildren or great grandchildren. The young nurse smiles. She knows and loves the naughty couple as she calls them. Herself a bit of a consensual sadist, she helps grandpa so gently, he once asked whether she's truly an angel. She wouldn't dream of causing him any discomfort. Not the same experience her slave has. Oh, the stories I can tell about nurses.

Seriously, if you struggle with your feelings about femdom don't read 'the origin of femdom' on No Fap, it's baloney. Go to a local support group of seek out professional help. Whatever you do, don't self-medicate by reading silly stuf.

Cruel Canes that Care

How Women Really Enslave Men. It's kindness, don't tell anyone 

Caned by six dommes (image: lady Valeska)

The essence of femdom is not slavery. Or BDSM. It's women. I was reminded of that the other day doing 'research' for an article. One of those illegal video websites - which once again I only visit solely for research purposes - had this awesome video of six dommes in a caning competition, organised by lady Valeska. Four slaves are lined up and the game is called last man standing.

Mistress is loving it. (image lady Valeska)

The ladies have so much fun, it's a joy to watch - even for research purposes. From the approving nods if a slave is twitching when the cane hits him hard to the little excited noises when the slaves start to tremble. One by one the boys drop like flies and the game heats up. The ladies can hardly wait to get their turn. Finally it's down to the last two slaves. Six dommes, two slaves means there's hardly a moment to recover for the poor lads. Now the women get really excited and then suddenly: game over. One of the slaves can't take it anymore and is about to drop to his knees. The two dommes closest to him, rush over for support. I didn't see that coming and it once again showed me the beauty of femdom. Cruel, sadistic and dominant, yes. But also caring and the ability to change gears instantly. Sadists with a heart but also very feminine. No man can resist, so why isn't everybody into femdom?

As for the clip, it's gone from the tubes. I couldn't find 'Whipping Target Practice' on C4S or IWC. Feel free to send me the link to one of the stores and I'll update this post.

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As for the slave that lost, in the end he's the real winner, not the last guy standing, how cruel is that?

Alpha Female

Dominant females are everywhere! 

She's the boss now.

The macaque monkeys at a nature reserve on the Japanese island of Kyushu have a new leader. The previous one just got ousted. It happens all the time, kind of a macaque thing. Alpha male Sanchu has been leader of ‘troop B’ for five years.

Yakei's ascent to power started when she beat up her own mother [3] in order to become the alpha female. Two months later she challenged and roughed up 31-year old Sanchu and now the nine-year old female macaque is the boss.

And what's the grand prize for being the boss lady? Walking around with her tail up [2]. First in line for free peanuts (humans can read pinot noir instead) and "climbing trees and shaking them, which is an expression of power and a very rare behaviour in females." Sounds a lot better than having a man worshipping you by sucking your toes. 

Read the full article in The Guardian. 

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[1] sounds very Japanese, 'troop B', don't you agree?

[2] Try walking with your tail up as a male. Or a slave. No further comment.

[3] Probably not the kind of succession planning queen Patricia had in mind when she dreamt of handing the keys to the OWK's castle to her daughter.

Free Catheter As a Thank-You?

promise to be cruel Please? 

Independent advice is either very expensive or completely free. Nothing in between.

Gorgeous eyes. Dr. Mia, urologist, an associate of Nurse Gypsy & Friends.

The other day I was helping a friend, sorting out her finances. She wants to buy a house. Guess I did a good job. As I was heading out door, she rather unexpectedly, offered me a free catheter. Odd choice of words and I immediately felt the need to cross my legs. Mostly invisible. Took me a few seconds to bounce back, before I could usher the usual silly comments about her sweet offer. We both had a laugh. And no, I didn't tell her I'd love to try such a useless, invasive procedure, as long as she promised to enjoy it too. It includes her marveling at my pain, humiliation and everything else generally associated with men feeling miserable in the hands of capable, caring but oh so cruel nurses. She'll never know.

Time Machine

Holland. Springtime. Time machine. Sort of. 

Today is not about Doctor Who. Or? Of course not sleepyhead. Don't you know the Doctor is never without a companion?

# relationship goals

One morning, a couple of weeks ago I wake up a few minutes before my alarm goes of. The daunting task of getting up and facing the weather, which looks more like late autumn makes me go for option B. Five more minutes.

Alone in the big bed, I gaze at 'her' pillow and suddenly realize how much I miss her. Not exactly a news flash, more like on of those moments of weakness where you allow crushing honesty to trample your soul. The noise outside tells me it's a cold May morning. Figures, a couple of days earlier the night temperature dipped below zero.

Cruella Takes a Wrong Turn

Cruelty to animals is never the answer 

What if Cruella de Vil, in her younger years, had focused on femdom instead of puppies?[2] 

Undeniably powerful, even if her name isn't Cruella. Good for her.

Apart from rating female villains in the Disney movies there's little to get excited about when it comes to the Magical Kingdom. Oops. Why Kan that be? Is it in his kiss, sorry Cher, I mean name? Her name of course.

Gain Control to Lose Control

Femdom blogging at it's best is like a fly-wheel. The more people blog, the more people blog too. It's a little thing called inspiration. Apart from killing time until you go shopping for groceries later today, femdom blogging actually serve a purpose. Big words, yes, but reading other people's blogs is all about personal growth.

Quiz: Which Domme Should Be The 14th Doctor?

Time for the first-ever Domme Doctor. 

Audio only: or how not to enjoy watching Doctor Who. (Image: Chastity Goddess)

Cucumber time is the Dutch expression for silly season. Only, this year it's not just the summer months filled with frivolous news, it's been going on ever since Covid-19 came to town.

Doctor Who on the other hand is serious stuff, as I've explained many times before. Most viewers agree that Jody Whittaker is a little underwhelming as the thirteenth Doctor. Some blame it on the writing, others on the actor. My bet? It's a bit of both. 

Love Bondage Is Never The Answer

Hardcore bondage between lovers on the other hand... 

Elise Graves smiles as she explains the many benefits of bondage liberation to a captive audience. 

Father's Day in the Netherlands. Dutch' top tip this Sunday? Don't tell dad you're into femdom. [You're happy] he raised you, that's all he need to know. Being his daughter or son makes no difference. He loves you and is proud of you. If Dad were to be the next President of the United States, the Secret Service wardens would call him Love Unlimited, so let it go. Also because Dad is tied-up in his old-school convinctions about what should make you happy.

BDSAIME's Warsaw Prison Session

It's terrifying. Some think it's fun

Today more of a blog recommendation than a review of sorts.

Lady Daria contemplating in her Warsaw prison.

One of femdom blogger Paltego's favourite calls to arms is for the global femdom blogging comunity to link to each other. A while back I ran into BDSAIME, a bilingual femdom blog from France. Tweaking my old-school Blogger software didn't help. There was no way to add BDSAIME to my blog roll, so I contacted its author. Turn out the gentleman uses an obscure, incompatible platform. What a waste.

Air Neocorona

[air as in airtist]

Mile high club femdom style. [Image: Neocorona]

After Castlevania season three popped up on my BDSM radar, I frowned. Rule 34 inevitably scares me. After which I did a little online research. My blog's readers deserve the best. Clearly Google is a man because the search engine gets it wrong more often than not.

A Job Well Done

Smiling sadists are the best [image; merciless dominas]

Continuing from yesterday's post about the virtues of porn, here's another lady from the Merciless Dominas team. I have absolutely no idea who she is. She's also rather young. But what I do love is her smile. Whether this lady is an actress or someone fully into femdom, it doesn't matter. Her smile does. And she's clearly happy with the end result. Dutch and smiling sadists, a combination that can end only one way. Me in tears. And despite the fact I'm not loving it, I'll probably be back for more.

Porn Is Good

[including femdom porn]

Nobody can escape porn. Good thing we're all grown-ups, able to separate fact from fiction.

In an article titled 'the porn crisis that isn't' the Atlantic magazine discusses why some politicians in the USA now consider pornography to be a health threat. Short answer? They think it gets them re-erected. Nasty stuff. Poltics that is.

Castlevania's Femdom World

Season three only but afterwards you'll be wondering if rule 34 is now a thing of the past.

Castlevania is not a DIY show about the OWK fixing up their new castle but a Netflix animated series about vampires 'n' stuff. It's not very good either. Still I watched. What can I say? Covid-19 anyone?

Artist impression of Lenore and Hector. Awesome image! (Credits: PurpleDNGNoodle on Twitter)

A couple of weeks back Netflix dropped season four, which means it's time for me to start watching season three (2020). Spoilers from here on.

For vampires to live happily ever after all you needs is humans. Lots of us. Mainly to suck the blood out of. Please don't judge, we all do what we have to do. It's take-out night. Spare ribs or burgers?

Talk First, Play Later

Princess Natasha Strange on Common Misconceptions and Pro-Dommes

Talk first, play later? Or is it: think first, play later? Who cares?

Princess Natasha Strange (Image: website Natasha Strange)

Paltego almost daily writes an article for his Femdom Resource blog. He also closely monitors the best femdom writing all around. Unfair, what's left for Dutch to write about?

Actually, a lot. For some reason I enjoy talking to people. Of course I've never visited a professional dominatrix but afterwards I actually managed to have a conversation with some of them. Lessons learned? Talk first, play later. Even I didn't see that one coming. Also sorry. Busy day. I mean my best friend's pervy play time. Whatever.

Princessa Natasha Strange is a professional dominatrix and dungeon owner in Portland, Oregon, USA. This April she wrote a post on some of the most common misconceptions professional dominatrices are facing. 

 

What a Woman

AKA the great divide between what inspires you and how the alphabet crushes any hope of explaining.

Context, not content, is king and I have absolutely no clue. Let's be honest, why do I even need it? Dutch has written about chairs before. Not my best work so I'm not gonna link to it. Don't know where I found this image but it's beyond stunning.

What an impressive woman. It's been years since anybody impressed me this much the first time I was allowed to look back. Once again, absolutely no idea who this wonderful woman is or what the image is all about but if your devotion towards women is dwindling, one look at her is enough to rekindle your devotion. Composed, confident, oozing strength and incredibly powerful. Can't remember even a single image that taught me the true beauty of female strength and power more beautifully. Japanese mistress Naomi Asano once said: you can being by worshipping my photo.' It's finally dawning on me why.

Guess that - against the odds - Gaia must be a man. What can I - or any man - offer a woman of her stature, a lady who single-handedly redefines the rules of personal gravity without lifting a finger? Apologies are of no use. Gratitude is all that is left. Thank you Ma'am.

The Natural Order of Sassiness

A life of crime and capture never looked better. But only if she promises to catch me immediately. 

Now you get the beauty of femdom?

The beauty of random images on the internet is that you have no clue what they are about. Which means: body language rules. It always does, not that most people remember what rules their world.

The masked guy could be a burglar, remember the 2015 story about two would-be muggers trying to rob a martial arts fighter? Wrong bet. Mrs. Bastos knocks them of their motor bike and worked one of them to the ground, holding him there for over 20 minutes until the police arrived.

Don't know what just happened, but what a lovely image. Clearly crime pays. So relaxed and comfortable, this lady oozes confidence. The highlight is her natural, sassy attitude. Her body language speaks volumes. Too bad for the guy under her feet there's no mirror. Then again, he behaved badly - why else is he in this position? And we all can agree bad boys don't deserve a reward. But what an image.

Skin Care Product Turns Pain Into Pleasure

[Van pijn tot fijn]

From our lost in translation department. Word of advice, don't believe everything you hear. 

Latex dreams by Thai domina mistress Nikki. [2] [3] Frieda Kahlo is in the back I think.

Life as a marketeer must be hard, especially if you're trying to sell stuff nobody wants. Take pain for instance, who buys pain? Doesn't everybody hate pain? Oops, maybe not the best example for a marketing challenge. How to sell a simple skin gel is much harder than it looks. At least in Holland.

Hotel California Is Just Another Sex Prison

Free sex, whatever your definition. But first free yourself from negative thought. 

'Nothing Else Matters' will always be the more relevant song. 

Undated image of maîtresse Alexandra. Neither 18 nor 21. Much better. What a woman!

In the real world, or better the skies above it, eagles rule with impunity. It's why they're called apex predators. There is nothing to challenge their dominance and it shows. There are multiple reports about eagles attacking drones because the sky belongs to them, not some man-made wubba wubba wubba machine with rotors.

Never Self Defence! Handcuffed Wife Faces Life In Jail For Shooting Rapist Husband

Of course it's not self defence. It never is. Not even when a woman protects their children. No matter what. [0] [1]

[Are you really that self-absorbed, you believe, her first instinct is to save herself? Congrats, there's a bright future in findomming ahead of you.] [11]

Still no self defence?

The beauty of the decimal system is lost upon most. Luckily there's the number 11, AKA fool's number. Meanwhile the number 12 stands for perfection. Don't believe the hype.

Domme Experiences Too Much Happiness Making Slave Twist 'n' Shout

Is something like that even possible? 

Be careful out there boys, or you'll pay the price. There are happy, attractive sadist women lurking everywhere.

Lovely smile, big eyes and dark hair. What's not to like about this lady? Except for the fact she seems totally addicted to her cell phone. Oh wait, it's not her cell she's holding in her hand but the remote. No, not that of the TV but the one that controls her slave.

The lady is clearly a gearhead, filled with anticipation about what happens when she presses that button. Fireworks indeed. He screams and shocks a bit, but who cares, just look at how excited she gets because he's in pain with no way out. She's almost dancing in the aftermath. My guess? It won't take her long to reload and press that button again.

Also a shout out to the person who created this lovely gif

There's one thing I wonder though? Is it dangerous? For her to experience so much joy seeing her slave suffer? I doubt it. At any rate, what's good for the goddess, is good for the [genitals]. Shocking news, I know. But also very true.

Most Awesome Leather Outfit Ever

Please keep on reading

Fabulous Leigh, not Herrin Xena. Despite the awesome leather, it's personal gravity that rules my world.

Clearly you people didn't like my post on the parallels between colonial politics 400 years ago and Euro-Turkish relationships in 2021. Such a shame.

To try and convince you to read it, I added an image of mistress Zena. She is a German domme, whose features slightly resemble that of EU president Ursula von der Leyen. Clearly my readers don't care. Such a shame. To make you regret skipping over my post on 'Nzingha Mbande 400 Years Later', here's another image. No not that lady who co-believes she runs the EU but of mistress Zena.

Dutch loves leather. Not as much as he loves women. Some more than others, obviously. Dutch also love the combination of women and leather, as long as it makes her happy too. Somehow I never have a doubt about the lady in the picture loving what she wears. Not sure, but I think it's mistress Zena, wearing perhaps the most awesome leather outfit ever. Now go back and read what I wrote about Nzingha Mbande 400 Years Later. Better hurry.

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[1] See also my post from 2016 about Nzinga Mbandi, the 17th century Angolan warrior queen who forced the Portuguese to their knees.

Trigger Warning

Today's episode of powerful images comes extra strength

A single, grainy image proves the hypnotic beauty a select group of powerful women posses.

No doubt she's someone famous. I just appreciate her powerful presence.

Let's pray deciphering the logic behind people falling in love will always be to hard to unravel. And not just because scientists have better things to do. While we're at it, let's add lust and the exact type of woman that triggers a slave's deepest submissive feelings to it.

No doubt, one day, some second rate braniac will publish it's research on how looks come second to people's attitudes and personality. Old news.

Comfy Reading

Some guys have all the luck

No clothes for him means no blurred lines. Or am I the only one thinking of that song?

Once you start a series of blog posts, it's hard to stop. One thing leads to another. Two days ago I found the above image and made a mental note to blog about it. Current affairs (see yesterday's post) took over and in the end everything comes together nicely.

The image above is not the whole picture. No doubt naked men are sexy but so are women reading books. And of course kinky Japanese stuff like the yapoo, despite the fact it was never meant that way. Like I said, things start to happen once you begin to write. Even by those standards, the combination of yesterday's and today's post is pretty cool. After all, there's nothing sexier than a woman reading a book. 

Nzingha Mbande 400 Years Later

Politician Charles Michel. Or how to betray 500 million people because you crave public humiliation on an absurd scale.

Real slaves spend their working hours in the real world where what we do matters. Not EU politician Charles Michel, AKA Mr. Weasel to whom the world is the biggest stage to be publicly humiliated, ever. 

Herrin Xena from Germany with her dog slave thingy. Ursula von der Leyen would wish she had even half the personal gravity of Herrin Xena. Any similarity between both women is fictional.

Once April arrives my dreams get even more vivid than normal. Spring, power tools, a smile to die for and Angola just to name a few. Not exactly dreaming of the country itself - never been there - but of Nzingha Mbandi. Queen Mbandi (1583–1663) was the ruler of the Ambundu Kingdoms of Ndongo (1624–1663) and Matamba (1631–1663), located in present-day northern Angola.

Upside Down House For Sale

About that 11th item to always tell your real estate agent about 

Remember Stranger Things? Clearly the Upside Down comes in many flavours. Classy 'n' pervy? Welcome to Sex Oasis 2.0

Sometimes there's no downside at all. Obviously.

Don't care about realtor confessions one to 10. What matters is the final one. Number 11 on the list. Ha ha ha. Does the property come with a 'naughty' 50 Shades kind of sex dungeon? [1]

Despite the fact I'm living on the 11th floor of the Elfland building somewhere in Dutcherdam (xxx), the answer is a resounding 'yes Ma'am.' What else can I say?

Mistress Madeleine Strikes a Pose

The level of detail is in the delay

It's all about divine body language. 

Mistress Madeleine: Glorious Beyond Belief. Now That's What I Call Personal Gravity. Topped of with a killer smile.

I have absolutely no idea who mistress Madeleine from Divine Bitches is. But from what I've sampled online, she's loving it. Or she is first in line for the next Oscar available. It's probably a bit of both, emphasis on the first part. Doesn't matter. Watching her dominate her slaves is a work of beauty that will stand the test of time.

Sexiest Sadist on the Planet

'Can't Believe What I Just Did!'

Totally terrifying but so hot. Me, me, me. Please mistress. I'll never regret it. Cross my heart and bla bla bla.

Just to remind you, when it comes to femdom there's no one size fits all. What fits me like a glove is a domme who is a woman first and a mistress second. And yes, that means what it means. 

That Must Hurt

Just be grateful

Even a glove aficionado like Dutch would have a hard time appreciating under the circumstances.

Many haters when it comes to femdom imagery. Agreed, a lot of it is smut but some hit the jackpot. In which case it takes three to tango.

Mistress and slave are doing their little dance while the photographer takes her/his time. It's all about the right angle.

Kink.Com San Francisco - Nirvana of the Past

"Last Days of the Leather Fortress" 

Classic image of the wonderful Claire Adams, shooting for Men In Pain.

In 2017 I wrote about the inevitable closure of the Armory, best known as Kink.com's headquarters. According to Wikipedia the building was constructed as an armory and arsenal for the United States National Guard in 1912–1914 and designed with a castle-like appearance in a Moorish Revival style. In an exceptionel well-written 2017 article for Hazlitt Tina Horn takes the reader into the world beyond the Arsenal's outer walls. She also shares some of her memories from her time at Kink's HQ 

Game Goddess & Gameboy

The difference between control and controllers? Basically none.

Words don't come easy. They only get in the way but if you want to know why the average slave is so disobedient, pay attention. Isn't she lovely? As for that Gameboy in the image: the only proper answer is "if it pleases you." Just don't ever tell her that you did it on purpose. That's our little secret.

How To Turn Your Dungeon Into a Money Maker During Covid-19

Introducing online shopping's most helpful review ever.

Mistress Renee Trevi at work in the dungeon before Covid locked-up humanity.

Blame whoever came up with the idea for letting me blog unsupervised for today's 'essential' consumer advice. Social distancing, femdom style - or any other - is clearly not the path to enlightenment for Dutch. And yes, that means it's time for yet another story involving dogs. Just remember this one's on you dear missing supervisor. Here we go.

Hold That Sucker Down

On euphoria and the similarities between the things you love.

Holding men down is hard work - and why bondage was invented.

Music was my first love and it will be my last. Of course it will. Doesn't make it my one [1] and only [1] twue love. And no, the answer to that isn't femdom either. It's like a certain wise man by the name of L. Kravitz once said: "Let Love Rule." Smart singer. The beauty of love is that it doesn't ask for permission. Nor do your preferences. Isn't life awesome? Yes and no. Not always.

Kink Cycle: Floggers Made from Old Bike Inner Tubes

From Holland with love: Save the world, one whip at a time.

And now it's a flogger with the printed text from what was once an inner tube still visisble. (image Kink Cycle on Facebook)

When it comes to femdom news, it's clearly silly season. After yesterday's consumer advice regarding the Cellmate chastity device, today a tip if you're in the market for a new flogger.

Margo Moutarde and Shimaya Jahangiri don't consider anything waste. In their Amsterdam workshop they can recycle almost anything. Jahangiri once made a dress from old pop tabs. Before Covid-19 she visited underground kinky parties , which she loves because of the relaxed atmosphere. After seeing a hammock made from old bike inner tubes, she realized those old tubes were also the perfect material for floggers: much more environmentally friendly than synthetic leather.

Cellmate Chastity Device Owner Blackmailed By Hacker

Now that's what i call involuntary involuntary 

Alternative version of "Your hand in mine." Sing along everybody!

Remember the commotion about the Cellmate chastity device last year? The story only gets better - and no you cannot make this up. This particular development I found through the blog of Domina Lady Sas. The German version of Vice magazine reported earlier this week that a Cellmate owner became the victim of blackmail.

Dog Walks Woman

Everybody knows femdom is serious business. After all for us this real. Kink is so serious in fact that there is something called the femdom police. And I'm on their watch list. So if they ask you where I got this very funny gif, tell 'm from a friend. I'm in enough trouble as it is.

Anyway, ran into this image by chance and it's the ultimate follow-up to the previous [real world] story about a woman walking her husband-dog during curfew. Allows me end with a famous, apt quote from Chekhov, I forgot in my previous post.

"Every man lives his real, most interesting life under cover of secrecy"

Anton Chekhov,
The Lady with the Dog

Canadian Couple Fined For Wife Walking Dog-Husband

Covid-19 Strikes Again!

I get it, Covid-19 is cruel and indifferent. But why fine her innocent hubby-dog? 

Eden Avital Alexander walking a man in 2014 in order to gauge audience reactions. (image: Alarabiya)

My blogging frequency puts me at a disadvantage, bringing you the lastest. When I read today's story, I decided to ignore it. No more. Earlier today the Dutch government decided to impose a curfew on it's citizens. Of course there are exceptions, among the more noticable ones are walking your dog (alone). So is going to a TV studio for a live appearance on late night TV. Why? Elections are coming up in about two months. Isn't democracy wonderful?

Pssst, Wanna Buy Femdom Shampoo?

For those who miss Tumblr, there's now an alternative. BDSMLR is a copy of Tumblr, only less sophisticated. It's where I found this image. Despite the fact it's an ad and not a femdom image, the women in red ooze femdom. Looking at their hair, their probably from a different planet, perhaps the Empire of a Hundred Suns from the Yapoo novels.

Zero Leather

Almost, but you're welcome to say yes to her dress.

More than most Dutch loves his toys, evil furniture and dommes dressing up. Despite that femdom has never been about those things. But hey, if you eat burgers for dinner all the time and tonight is different, why not cook your steak to perfection?

Pornhub Doesn't Care

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Of Circles And Squares

Everybody knows circles are by definition perfect

Explaining the true nature of beauty or happiness is impossible. Don't read on.

Pretty much self-explanatory. I'll leave it at that.

Circles and squares represent the arch-type of what it means to be human, once you get rid of life's bloatware. Two geometrical figures sum up the essence of female and male. Lean in, look closer and observe. Circles and squares are highly similar, yet oh so different. When in doubt, emphasize what connects them. Not convinced? Grab a random stranger and ask. As soon as Mr. Square catches his breath, he can't stop talking about the overwhelming similarities between both forms. No surprise there, a man's life revolves around certain Wonderful Girls, Magical Creatures and their beautiful, rounded corners. [1] Just not because of that.

Berlin's Studio Avalon Is Closing Down

No More Happy Surrender In Berlin's Paradisal Underworld Realm

Herrin Mercedes [L] and Lady Marlon [R] (image: Avalon website)

After reading about it, Dutch banged his head against the table for a long time. Amsterdam to Berlin is only 650km (400 miles) by car or about six hours' drive. One day, or so I told myself. Too late. At the end of October the famous Berlin dungeon closed down for good. The Avalon website reads: 

"suddenly you realize it's time to start something new and to let go of what was." [1]

China's Uighur Minority Locked Up In Concentration Camps

Identity is not about what meets the eye

If you don't look like us or act like us, you can never be like us. Just in case you didn't get why I don't like the current OWK's management. More on that later.

A cinema in Beijing, where Disney’s live-action “Mulan” opened to tepid reviews. (Image: The New York Times)

Missed my deadline. Blame Covid -19. Running late for this year's post on International Day for the Abolation of Slavery - Modern Day Slavery for short. That was on December 02. Yes, my blogging calendar is full, but don't worry, I'll never miss this one entry. It's the single, most important day for all that have crossed over to the Dark Side. BDSM, femdom, it's up to us to accept or renounce. We're free to say yes or no. And no, our preferences are not generally accepted, but in the greater scheme of things, who dares complaining?

Let's Have The Talk

All of a sudden Dutch is all ears

To be the recipient of her personal gravity is nothing but a privilige.

The other day I was watching a re-run of The Big Bang Theory on Netflix. Cue next episode and suddenly I find myself watching science geek Sheldon giving his Mum "the talk" about safe sex. Odd, very odd.

One can only wonder if there is such a thing as a femdom equivalent of "the talk". I don't know, but it feels highly unlikely. I have no idea what that talk should be about. Different talks for different couples is the best I can come up with.

I must admit, however that today's image comes pretty close to what I imagine, is mistress and slave having "the talk." Most likely because it's such a strong image. The fact that I like it, because it ticks so many boxes might also have something to do with it. For one, effortless intensity comes to mind, or as I like to call it: her personal gravity.

Intimacy

Beyond the complex lies the extra-ordinary

Only a fool refuses to bow to reality.

Forget I was born this way. Part of what makes femdom fun is the endless array of toys and outfits, not to mention the many insanely complex schemes.

Yes, by now I know toys are evil, at least according to the femdom police. Who cares, I'm a rebel by heart. As for naked slaves versus mistresses dressed in leather or rubber, that's very much up to her, don't you agree?