Intimacy

Beyond the complex lies the extra-ordinary

Only a fool refuses to bow to reality.

Forget I was born this way. Part of what makes femdom fun is the endless array of toys and outfits, not to mention the many insanely complex schemes.

Yes, by now I know toys are evil, at least according to the femdom police. Who cares, I'm a rebel by heart. As for naked slaves versus mistresses dressed in leather or rubber, that's very much up to her, don't you agree?

Personally I've never met a woman who doesn't look less than fabulous in leather or latex. So how can it be wrong to dress up if you feel like it? Or is it just me who cannot see the harm in having more fun? Outfits like that also can help in setting the stage and create a deeper feeling of power exchange.

In the end it doesn't matter whether you agree or not. What's matters is that it works for the both of you.

To make it 'work', two players need to connect as people first. Makes sense you think. Now go online and read the many ads and comments, reducing the other half to a mere prop. Why would I want that?

As I said before, my definition of a relationship is a recurring interaction with another person. That can be the clerk in the grocery story or you spouse - and anything in between.

All happy mistress-slave relationships hinge on some sort of connection. The closer two people are, the deeper their bond. If you're truly blessed that connections runs so deep, any random stranger can tell, whether or not they are into femdom.

No props, no complications, just a glorious image of a mistress and her slave. She gently wraps one hand around him, while she canes him. At the same time, her face seems to rest on his back. Even if you hate femdom, you know this image is all about good things. That's the amazing power of true intimacy.

Blindfolds are evil, right?