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| Happiness comes at a price (image: The English Mansion) |
Dutch is a longtime admirer of mistress Sidonia von Borcke and The English Mansion. [2] I wrote before about the attention to detail that goes into her videos. Together with the famous, Berlin based, Studio Avalon, The English Mansion is one of very few video labels that continues to stand out after more than two decades.
It's hard to surf the internet and not run into mistress Sidonia. Of course her on camera persona is not the same as the mistress she is in private. The best way to be successful is to do what you love. Because of that I suppose there is a significant overlap between the domme mistress Sidonia is in private and the one she publicly embraces.
From what I've seen mistress Sidonia's preferences are wide. Her penchant for toys doesn't hurt either. But in the end, like with most dominant women I admire, it's not the looks or gear but mistress Sidonia herself.
To my regret I never met her, but she strikes me as the woman who gets into your head just by looking at you. That style of dominance appeals to me very much. Being mentally and emotionally defenseless is scary, it's where you cross the line between handing over control for fun and surrendering for real.
Sidonia von Borcke (1548–1620) was a Polish noblewoman who was tortured, tried and executed for witchcraft. In posthumous legends, she is depicted as a femme fatale. Today's mistress Sidonia is the one who inflicts pain on her slaves but this time it's consensual.
I often blog about the unlimited power of women's eyes, but what if the shoe is on the other foot? Caught in the moment, what do his eyes tell us? I'll figure out later from which clip today's image is, but it's not the first time this slave films with mistress Sidonia. Probably one of her longtime slaves, which means after every ordeal he picks up the pieces and comes crawling back for more.
Desperation is the only word to describe the look in his eyes. Not because mistress Sidonia is shaving his head, who cares? Been there, done that, but not always a great thing. Neither is destiny. Her slave has some idea of what mistress has planned and is scared. His real fear is not the pain and humiliation she is going to put him through, but the certainty there is nowhere to hide, not even in the darkest corners of his mind. Soon mistress Sidonia will start peeling away his mental defenses, layer after layer, like you peel an onion.
Positive fear is part of the beauty of femdom. It's not necessarily fun, but it's usually necessary. Fear is fear, period, and at times it haunts you. During those moments a well-matched slave can find strength in remembering how mistress [Sidonia] always knows best. Accept your destiny with dignity, focus on the connection between the two of you and count your blessings.
More information on mistress Sidonia and the English Mansion here.
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[1] AKA personal gravity.
[2] Big fan of lady Nina Birch, mistress Sidonia's co-conspirator as well, but that's for another time.
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