Handyman

No, this time it's not about power tools. This time it's personal.

Just a friend. Lovely smile, nice hands but very cruel. (Image Serious Images)

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Not gonna bore you with the very definition of what exactly beauty is, or should be. Wise men know female seduction can takes many forms.

A fetish is something you cannot do without, not to be confused with love, roughly translated as the one you shouldn't live without. Preferences are more like saying yes, one of life's little bonuses in an ocean of bling.

For some reason the Dark Side seems unable to swallow me whole. Me stubbornly repeating their are many ways a man can fall under the spell of a woman doesn't help either. Example: being quick on your feet is absolutely gorgeous. So is combining tender care with absolute cruelty. One of the more physical aspects that make women magnificent are their bellies. Yes. Don't ask me why, it's just how it works. Sometimes the slave man just wants to rest his head in her lap after his ordeal is over. Maybe plant a sneak kiss on her belly. Still, that doesn't explain it. Some things are best left unanswered.

Men in general and submissive men in particular are often wild about women's feet. The numbers are so overwhelming, it makes you wonder if there's some kind of conspiracy going on. As if the femdom police orders random men down on their knees to grovel in front of her and worship her feet, to which most happily oblige. Dutch is a huge fan of women's feet too. Doesn't mean anything, I love everything about women.

Gorgeous but also very focused, look down lucky boy. (Image Serious Images)

On the other hand, the number of men who love women's hands is severely limited Those who fetishize them are virtually non-existent Dutch likes women's hands very much. A lot in fact, but not a fetish. I'm equally happy to spend time in her company without ever noticing her hands.

If you exclude ball busting, femdom consists of three major elements: tone of voice, body language and action. Guess what, her poor little hands have to do all the hard work. Those hands not only have to hold the whip, they also have to swing it in action. They also have to spank his bare bottom and attach a pair of nipple clamps. The latter is fascinating to see happening in real time. A preference for women's hands only make worse what comes next.

Mistress' hands are also fluent in the art of clamping nipples. (Image Serious Images)

Still, my preference for women's hands is not an erotic attraction, it's more like the part of her physical beauty that most easily catches my eye.

Men are often asked a rude question: "breasts, butts or legs?" Also limited in nature, especially if your name is Dutch. What about her hands or her belly. And that's just the beginning.

I'm gonna end with a warning. Don't mistake this confession for having discovered my weak spot. Men have only two weak spots when it comes to women: her eyes and her smile, in no particular order. Still, hands can be a lovely bonus, especially without an instrument of pain in them. Without. Yes, that's correct.

Saved the worst for last. You're in deep trouble if you enjoy looking at those gorgeous hands while they screw extra-long spikes in your chastity device. For beauty, I'd gladly pay the price. (Image Serious Images)