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| "The rule book didn't work for us, so we put it to alternative use. |
In today's episode of how our desires get the better of us, a post I found on Tumblr. Apparently there are 9 commandments for dominant women. Yes that made me smile too. But why stop at 9? We all know that rule number 10 orders dominant women to sleep in leather pyjama's. How else to spot a dominant woman while she is asleep. And no it is not about me trying to sneak in my preference for women in sexy, hot, tight leather outfits. According to the addendum to the 9 rules, I am not allowed to enjoy that. The rules are never wrong.
Define dominance
I've poked fun at the rule book before. Sometimes gently, at other times not so gentle. If you want to be dominant - or submissive of course - following these rules just for dominance sake, you might get a lot of attention, but probably little devotees. Let alone anything that comes from the heart. Remember the riel rules:
Rule 1: There are no rules. Talk to her.
Rule 2: I told you there are no rules, why are you still here?
Yes, it is an insult to dominant women and the men who love them to propose a set of rules based on one's personal preferences. Perhaps you should learn how to use a dictionary. It is a big book that explains the meaning of difficult words such as "dominance".
It is even more degrading to tell others how to live their lives. Yes your kink gets you all fired up. We're not the least bit surprised. But that is just you - and your partner if you're lucky. Other than that, it is just plain silly and disrespectful.
Sarcasm on Sunday
It is hard to resist unleashing some of my pent up sarcasm. Yep, I' the first slave ever in sarcasm chastity. Boy, that feels as weird as it sounds. Sarcasm is easy, but hey it is Sunday so here are a few nuggets. The full text is at the end of this post.
"Have fun" Doctor's orders? Mistress orders perhaps or what? Is life really that shallow?
"Remind your partner that you’ll stay with him forever." Rule number two is perhaps the most creepy definition of slavery I have ever read. Say no more.
"Never settle for just having your partner." That's rule number nine. Somehow it makes the "forever" part of rule 2 even more scary.
"Dress sexy and..." I'm all for mistress looking sexy but your sexy is not mine and if I have learned one thing from all of my mistakes with women, is that there are all kinds of sexy. You have natural sexy, which is the best - and different for everyone. Another favourite is angry sexy: she is cross and the last thing she wants is to look sexy but she can't hide it. Of course there is sexy by choice, mind blowing and the single biggest threat to every man. But there is one thing she cannot: being ordered to dress sexy.
"... and play the part!" The exclamation mark, I object least to in this rule. Who wants somebody to play the part when it comes to love? Now replace love with dominance - yes the big word you just looked up in the d-i-c-t-i-o-n-a-r-y and think again.
I'm not gonna spoil the rest of the fun but there are few more nuggets in the full text, including the classic "submission is a gift to be treasured." Perhaps I should change my slave name to Treasure. Ha ha. The user who posted the 9 rules goes by the name of Cuckold Obedience Husband Training. Perhaps that explains part of it.
9 commandments for Dominant Women
These commandments should be looked at like guidelines for what is propper behavior for a dominant woman…
1. Have fun. This experience might be for both you and your partner, but paramount to everything else is that you have fun. That means if you want new panties, new shoes, a new outfit, or the house cleaned, you shall receive it. Your pleasure, your needs and your wishes come before your partners’ own needs. Provide your partner with guidelines to stay within and when your partner steps out of those guidelines apply punishment…
2. Remind your partner that you’ll stay with him forever. We love our partners and we will never leave them and they need to know that. Just because we enjoy meeting our lovers on the weekends, doesnt mean we don’t love our partners more than ever. Maybe even love him more for permitting you to have such experiences…
3. Planning is half the fun and just as submission is a gift to be treasured, domination is a talent to be mastered so get educated and experienced at dominating - the internet is a great resource…
4. No secrets. If your lover calls you and tells you how much he wants you, tell your partner. If you meet your lover for a drink, tell your partner. If you experience something special with your lover while your partner isn’t present, tell your partner. Our partners like details almost as much as we like having a special boyfriend on the side. Also feel free to call/text/chat to your lover whenever you want, especially when your partner is near…
5. Preserve yourself for your lover. Don’t let your your partner touch you sexually within 3 days prior to meeting your lover. Not only will you preserve your body for your lover, but you will work up sexual tension for your date. Overall you control your partners’ sexual release. You determine when, where and how he can experience an orgasm. Penetrative sex is when you penetrate him, sissies get fucked and are not allowed to fuck - period…
6. Dress sexy and play the part! Wear short dresses, skirts or thing fitting jeans. Do your hair and wear make up when you go out (dont over do it of course). You are hot and you should allow other people to see it. Dressing to pleases takes more time and work but it will pay off tremendously in how it affects your attitude towards yourself. Also make sure to make plenty of eye contact and smile. Be confident baby…
7. Express your fantasies. Tell your partner your thoughts. Give ideas of wild things like role playing while in public. Go to a bar (away from your home) and pretend your partner is really ‘just a friend’ and flirt away! Just as important as your fantasies is inquiering about his fantasies…
8. Request gifts from your partner. Even if he is on an allowance he should still buy you gifts such as flowers. He’ll also enjoy buying you a nightgown or new panties for your lover to tear off of you. Your partner should ask for your approval before doing anything that effects you both or the household, going anywhere or spending anything…
9. Never settle for just having your partner. You may love him for ever, but you deserve to enjoy other men too. If you break up with your lover, tell your partner to find another one. You will enjoy and deserve the attention of two (or more) men and become to know it as one of the most treasured things in your life…
Source: cuckoldhusbandobediencetraining.tumblr.com
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