So you think you are dominant?

Ever read one of those contact adds where some sub explains he is only submissive to “The One” while maintaining his position as Alpha Male in real life?

A true alpha male, Dutch gorilla Bokito, who escaped in 2007

ROFL? Yes me too. Sometimes I sneak up on those self-proclaimed Alpha Males and shout: BOOYAH!!!! Next thing you know there are about two dozen ambulances outside and a lot of respirators for the rest of those Asthmatic Males.

Really? You think one thing offsets one another? Somehow it strikes me as purely coincidental how the one per cent of humanity who identifies as slave/submissive also identifies as Alpha Male. Too much of a coincidence.

A true Alpha male does not know he is an Alpha male because he always gets what he wants. It is the natural order of things. And if he does not, he makes sure he gets what he wants because he is an Alpha Male. Q.E.D. He certainly does not have to announce to others he is an Alpha Male. They (are supposed to) know.

Do not be afraid of who you are. So you like your kink and you long to be a slave or submissive. It does not make you any less of a man: au contraire, you have chosen the road less travelled and least understood. That is quality called personal strength. You still believe you are dominant? Remember The Godfather: “Go to the mattresses” The eternal struggle to for the top of the food chain. If you want it you got to fight for it, not proclaim it.

Makes you wonder what it means when a domme says "If you do not want to be submissive to me I am not going to make you." Does that not defy the purpose of the whole exercise? Boy, that whole D/s thing sounds terribly complicated. It feels like it defies logic.

Next time I'll sneak up to someone and shout BOOYAH, I will ask for mistress' permission. That might take a while. She still has not stopped laughing. Maybe I should pick her up of the floor first...

If you want to be the big bad dominant wolf, act like it.